It hasn't been long, yes I love him...

United States
May 31, 2011 3:04pm CST
My man and I haven't been together for a long time but soon after we met he started talking about the future. Our chemistry was an immediate spark and I believe the heart never lies. We are happy, we love eachother very much but is it a specific time when couples should be discussing marriage and having more children? Its like we knew we were right for eachother immediately and we have been inseparable from the day we met. He's a wonderful man and i've never felt like this out of all the relationships i've been in. It feels like God answered me by bringing him to me. Before I met him, I was single for over a year and celebate. My last relationship was so ugly, I was just tired of the mental and verbal abuse so I didn't date or really talk to guys. Then exactly 14 months into me being single, he found me and I haven't stopped smiling and my heart sings whenever I say his name or look at his face. He took all my pain away...Has anyone else ever experienced a feeling like this? Are we moving too fast by talking about getting married and having more kids?
3 responses
• Philippines
31 May 11
I agree. It doesnt really matter how long or recent the relationship is. when you find the RIGHT ONE, you will just know its him. Me and my ex have been together for more than 11 years and we were also engaged, however we separated. After that, I dated a friend and we hit it off really great. We got engaged after 9 monhts of being in a relationship and got married after two years of being together. We now have a son and we're very happy and we feel blessed everyday for each other and our wonderful child. marriage is really hard work and commitment to love and cherish one another. With this in your minds and hearts, I'm sure you'll overcome all challenges that may come your way. Remember to think of the word LOVE as a verb and not a state of mind or heart as in being inlove. You have to LOVE each other everyday for the rest of your lives. =) Best regards to you and your man.
• United States
1 Jun 11
Awwww Cosmo thank you girl. Now here I go crying again...lol it's an emotional subject for me because our love is amazing so its just tears of joy. I guess it took for me to experience all the other relationships to know and realize that real love and men do exist. I don't regret my past situations I just look at them as a life experience. The love I have for my man is unexplainable and I don't question it at all, im loving the feeling my heart feels. We haven't set a date, we just talk alot about the future in every aspect. He would get mad if I don't tell my kids he says hi or if we're talking and I say "my kids", he gets mad and say "dont you mean our kids". I have never allowed a man to get close to my kids so I have to get use to saying our kids instead of my kids when we're talking about them. He also doesn't approve of me being on birth control, he says to not interfere with Gods gift and let it happen. That surprised me because most guys don't be in a rush to have more kids. Together we have 5, his 3 girls and my 2 babies and he wants more...wow! I love it, love him and im ready to live my life with this man. He tells me im Gods gift to him and I say the same thing to him...Thank you once again girlie
• Philippines
1 Jun 11
It's really very nice feeling to love and be loved especially if your love is unconditional. Take good care of each other girl and always put our Lord God in the center of your relationship.
@kuramax (80)
• United States
1 Jun 11
yes its normal to talk about marriage and having kids in a relationship whether its a new or old one. talking about marriage and having kids is also a way of knowing each other. you may know if the man is sincere to marry you. and if your heart responded that he is the one, then go.. keep your relationship strong and alive. if the two of you is in the right age to enter marriage then ring the giant bell now and lets start the ceremony. ^^
• United States
1 Jun 11
Its like everytime I get a response on this I get teary eyed...omg I love him so much and I do want everything he's asking. We're both in our 30's but im the older one. We're still going thru our learning process but he didn't hesitate to tell me that he wants to get married and he wants me to have his kids. I was blown away and thought he was joking but he wouldn't stop bringing it up. He tells everyone that he's my hubby and he writes his last name on at the end of my name all the time. I love it and love him
@kingparker (9698)
• United States
31 May 11
Sounds like you found your prince charming. No, time never been a matter in a relationship, whether it is long or short. Some people been long together, just like me and my ex, we have been for over 4 years, and finally we been separated. When you are fall in love with someone, and you knew that someone is the one for you, you shouldn't be hesitated. Maybe he is the one for your whole life.
• United States
31 May 11
Awwww thank you. It brings tears to my eyes just reading what you had to say. I believe is my prince charming and im glad he found me cause I had honestly stopped looking. My G'ma always told me to not look for the man, let that man find you then you'll know its true love. And my baby found me when I least expected it. Now im sitting here all emotional lol but thank you for the positive feedback