Are you a good friend?
By Valadas
@Valadas (83)
Portugal
June 1, 2011 2:57pm CST
I am and I am not. And i'll explain why.
I have true friends, mostly the ones that I went to school with for 5 years or more. With those friends I am really nice to them. I talk to them as most as I can and have fun times with them. Of course we have our ups and downs but it's mostly ups. Basically with those type of friends I am friendly. I'm appealing to those who are to me.
Then there are those "friends" that I call fake friends. These ones are in most cases the oportunist ones. Its those type of friends that only talk to you when they need something from you. I really hate these type of people, but I say nothing and pretend that I don't care. It's called hypocrisy. They fake to be your friends just to take advantage of you. But I simply ignore them.
Bottom line is: I am a good friend to those who are also good to me. And I am a "bad" friend to those who don't care about me (as I said I pretend that I don't care). So I am a good friend and a bad friend. (:
So are you a good friend? A bad one? Both? Leave your commentarys below. All of your commentarys are aprecciated as long as they aren't spamming/flaming. Very much aprecciated.
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3 responses
@EstiiBabii (685)
• United States
5 Jun 11
I think I am a good friend because I am always there when my friend needs me. I am supportive of my friends because I am not judgmental. I think that I am more better of a friend because I'm the 'go 2' person in the relationship, but I don't have a 'go 2' person.
@EstiiBabii (685)
• United States
5 Jun 11
xD. A "go 2" person is someone that you can go to when you need help with problems, and that person will listen to you and give you advice.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
1 Jun 11
It's nice that you have a good true friend who can really understand and listen to to you.To have a man to himself with whom to have ups and downs and.
Can count on this friend know that you can count on him in everything.
a true friend has proved for so long istinki lucky you.
Good for you.Have a nice day!
@Valadas (83)
• Portugal
5 Jun 11
Well yeah I have a friend of those. I tell him everything without a problem because I trust him and I know he ain't gonna tell the things I tell him to anybody else. I'm also a friend of these. I have been told many things that I won't tell anybody.
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@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
9 Jun 11
Do you keep a secret is a great thing.So you really a friend.Because only a friend can keep a long criticism to.ay things in yourself everything you share.
Good for you.
@stary1 (6612)
• United States
1 Jun 11
I think smetimes we have to be fake. In the case of some job situations sometimes we have to pretend to like our boss more than we really do.
In persoanl situations I don't have to pretend and I think one feels better about being real than the stress of having to pretend.
@Valadas (83)
• Portugal
5 Jun 11
Yes in job situations you can fake to like your boss just to make a good impression and to be promoted or something.
In personal situations I have the same opinion, I prefer to be real and that people be real with me. Even if it's a very bad thing, I prefer to know about it than to not knowing it and have that thing hidden from me.
