Does your teen suck a pacifier?

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So I saw some pics of my brothers girlfriend on FB she had been tagged in. I could have done with out. I see her dancing in a photo and I noticed something in her mouth, wasnt to sure. Saw the next and shes attempting to pole dance and than I cld see what it was, a purple pacifier, looked like an Advent brand. She is 17. One this party did not look like a party I would allow my teen to go to. Grisl were half naked. Kids were smoking, probably drinking. Girls pole dancing. When I was younger I never attended anything like this. Were not to thrilled with his girlfriend in the first place. I saw these pictures and unless she becomes a lawyer or a doctor all I can see in her is a loser. There is more to the story, but we wont go there. I did mention to my brother how stupid she looks acting that way. I was wondering if this is the new teenager thing. not being able to handle growing up so they revert back to being an infant. My daughter is 8 and my son is 5. Im going to do my best to save them from this humilation and putting themselves in these circumstances than can haunt them for the rest of their life. I know they will get in trouble and will need to make mistakes, but if the parents saw what their kids were doing do you think they would keep a better eye on them and check into where they are going?