control to anger

India
June 3, 2011 3:45am CST
hi all, i love life and believe that we are so much fortunate that god has given us human life so we always keep enjoying every part / every second of the life. despite being a positive thinker i cant control on my anger,,,,sometimes i do a lot of anger and use to say many things to my partner that i should not say and my partner is so humble as well as so calm and quite he never counteract on my worst anger at that moment,,,,,,,,,after some hours i feel so bad and feel so guilty for that behaviour.....i have to control my anger,,,what shud i do ????????/
1 response
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
5 Jun 11
Hi! To control your anger is not something that can be done overnight, you need to train your patient and keep reminding yourself not to get angry easily. I believe you must have heard about EQ where that is the emotion intelligence in someone, the higher your EQ, the better you can control your emotion and therefore you can control your anger. So, do find some books and read out how to control your anger, and I believe it will help. The most simple way to control your anger is whenever you feel angry, try to close your eye and take a deep breath, and think of something good instead of keep thinking about the bad things, I believe if you can manage to do that, you will be able to control your anger in the future. Good luck!
• India
6 Jun 11
thanks a lot yspmyl,,,,i think you are right. as per your advise i will try to contraol my anger as i, myself recognizing my own week point and want to overcome,, hope every one who are short-tempered would throw their anger and become happy..thanks for sharing such a good advise it will surely help me out, infect i m desperately want to overcome,,thanks again :)