Hard to understand...
By xxj3ffxx
@xxj3ffxx (501)
Australia
June 5, 2011 7:51pm CST
Hi guys..
I havent posted any myLot discussion for a long time.. feel good to be back.. haha..
Anyway.. yesterday I had this weirdest conversation with my friend(a girl who liked me in the past) saying that "Jeff... i heard you like my sis.. right?" I was like what???
Of course i was confused because it all started when the sister added me through facebook. I only talked to her ONCE and she thinks I like her(it was just like 50 conversation lines of introduction). I am not really sure if this is really true because the new friend( the sis) asked my friend to tell me that I shouldnt think of her like this as she already has a bf... Why wouldnt she ask my friend to pass the message.. I am really confused and blur at the same time
I was like.. OMG.. thats crazy. lol! well.. anyway.. Am always amazed how people can think and imagine things..
If someone has some advice or comment... you are the most welcome here to share with me.. thank you
12 responses
@jameygc (452)
• United States
6 Jun 11
Maybe she is jealous because you two are friends in facebook now. She is doing that to get some information about what is going on between her sister and you. My advise? Just ignore her, she is really trying to call your attention.
@tarachand (3895)
• India
7 Jun 11
A case of misunderstanding, of wrong perceptions by a person having a massive ego, maybe? And maybe somewhere in the 50 lines of intro conversation lies the root of the misconception?
Imagine yourself in the sister's place, and then maybe you will understand why she spoke through your friend your liked you in the past, rather than contacting you directly.
@tarachand (3895)
• India
7 Jun 11
Oops, that should be 'your friend who liked you in the past'! Sorry for the typo!
@Princelierocks (817)
• India
6 Jun 11
wooho lol this is kind of interesting discussion you have started.. Well what every your past friend have said It must be really shocking for you to hear that she commented about you liking her sis. Now that you have started to chated with your friend's sis and have heard about that she is already having a BF.. dont just finish off even the friendship try talking in formals ways to her not including too much of flirting lines and stuff like that, Also regarding your friend's advice not to involve much as she as BF.. I think just being formal is ok that wont make much difference at the same time try and not make much publicity as this could held rumors everywhere because such things can cause trouble in future.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
6 Jun 11
Hi xxj3ffxx, This is a more or less possessive attitude. To be honest, girls are more possessive than guys. I have seen many of my friends imagining these things and their ultimate goal is their lover has to be just with them. They feel highly insecured. Though sometime a higher dose of it. So do you like her still?
@rhannealmoite (338)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
I think that girl is envy on her sister for you are getting along with her little sis. That girl is just simply want to draw your attention. She also want to confirm if you really likes her sister and if she could do something to get you.
You can just ignore her if you want.
@anonymous815 (47)
• United States
6 Jun 11
First off they are probably both crazy, delusional or scheming something, unless you somehow really did mislead her into thinking you like her, but I doubt that. That girl is probably the type who thinks everyone would just fall in love with her. You should just ignore what she thinks. They could be thinking of a way to get you to like your friend or get back on you for not liking her back. Some people are just like that when there just isn't enough going on in their life. Well best of luck with the drama.
@grecychunny26 (9483)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
That is weird. How come she think that way. That is bragging. Or merely, they are initiating something on you for you to start moving? Do not think much of this one, as they are only trying a technique to caught you up. No big deal with this one, some girls are having fun when they are doing this one. Better not think about it. If you do not like the girl then don't. For sure you are only there to be her friend...just guessing.
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
I'm a girl but I really have to tell you that girls are really fond of jumping to conclusions. Just because you talk to them for half an hour or even smiled at them, they'd think you're into them. When you're being nice, they think you love them. Been there when I was young, but I've learned that men and women are totally from different planets.
I don't make assumptions anymore. If a man likes me he has to say it to my face. If he wants to take me out on a date he must say so! But of course I have to decline as I am a married woman. 
@xxj3ffxx (501)
• Australia
6 Jun 11
Yes... jumping to conclusion on the first time we talk.. waoh. thats really crazy.. but ya.. since this comment is from a girl.. i can understand...
Your statement that and women are total different planets is very interesting.. I once read a book about this.. men are from Mars. and women are from Venus.. i think.
@tiffnkeat (1673)
• Singapore
6 Jun 11
Sometime the best response to that is not to respond at all. Time will tell. Don't react.
@ordinarygirl88 (175)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Ignored her!! that's a lame excuse to catch you attention... I bet your a good looking guy... hahaha
