say "MINE"

@asliah (11148)
Philippines
June 6, 2011 11:22am CST
i wish LOVE was like a volleyball. When you say “MINE,” everyone would back off,and the ball would be all yours.but it is not, because love is like a basketball.everyones aiming for it. and if you don’t know how to hold the ball well, others will steal it from you. this is now happening now a days and cheating will now spreading all over in the world.what the best position we must posses? do you think we should know how to hold the ball well to avoid stealing by other people?
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@783748 (179)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Well...in situations like this, the most important thing is TRUST. If we trust our partners, even if someone wants to steal them from you, we should be confident that they will still be faithful no matter what. I believe that we should really know how to handle the relationship well to maintain it.
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@Shar19 (8236)
• United States
6 Jun 11
The problem is that a lot of people just don't cherish and respect love the way they should. Some people take love for granted. If someone "steals" your love away from you then that really wasn't the right love for you or else it wouldn't have strayed.
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@CTHanum (8254)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 11
Volleyball or basketball yet both still a competitions or games plus there are teams on both games. Same goes to love. You can't play by your own when there is other people too~ As long as there are more than one people there is always a competition. We can't hold it forever because we always play with more than only ourselves.If you play the ball by your own there will be no game yet maybe you will still miss the ball off your hand but if you are playing it with others it will always a chance for people to grab it.
@CTHanum (8254)
• Malaysia
6 Jun 11
So join the competition and play hard my friend to protect yours from others~
@gaiza12 (4889)
• Philippines
23 Aug 11
I wish you are right. I wish there are people who would know how to count. Because relationship with a gf and bf are only for two people, they should know how to count and not go to people who already belong to someone else. And yes, we should know how to handle the ball for us to score. Or in relationships, we should know how to handle relationships for it to last.
@mtrguanlao (5527)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
Hi friend! I'm a player of volleyball,lol! And I'm happy to say that my partner is only mine. I don't find love as a competition asliah. It should be us that the boys will compete with. If a man cheats,I'd say he is not sincere with his love for a girl. Let him go! You'll meet the perfect man for you. See yah!
• United States
7 Jun 11
Sadly some people truly do not know how to love and respect their partners. Some want the ball and others from the team as well, and this is not the way the rules are conveyed. One when in love needs to cherish and understand that the love is valuable and should always respect.
@eLsMarie (4148)
• Philippines
7 Jun 11
Wow! I love it when you relate love to sports asliah! I guess you just have to let the ball go if you feel like it's not really meant for you. In love, you have to learn to control everything. If it felt like you're partner's no longer happy in the relationship - no matter how you try to make him/her it colorful - you just have to set them free, because at the end of the day, you're the only one who's going to bleed. Bleed hard.
@mods196621 (3631)
• Philippines
6 Jun 11
Hoping that i can hold the ball too as what you are wanted to be too. If we say mine everybody respected and give all the way to you and for sure the ball was yours. The same as if we say this word to our love. Let says mine but the more the love we called mine it lost like it was stealing something into our hands. Feeling bitter and not good mood when it happens. Why love always bring happiness and sadness in our life? Can't it be forever happiness? And when it will be sooner or later? It was always like that a ball games that passes to every players hand till the winners has come.
@Amanda81587 (3046)
• United States
6 Jun 11
I feel this way... when a man meets a women and they both claim they are in love and then the real feelings of love come by that cheating shouldn't be a problem. When a man really loves the woman they are with, then that woman is all that man can think about. It is not the woman's job to make sure her boyfriend or husband is not cheating. If there are any incidents to where the man or woman ventures off and cheats on the other then it was really never love in the first place. For example if the man cheats or feels the need to cheat then he was never really the girls to begin with and that man was not good enough for her. She needs to go out and find a man that wants her and only her and then that's how you know that you have found the right one if you feel the same way about him and only wanting him.