How can you forgive someone who hurts you badly?
June 11, 2011 10:27am CST
It's hard to do. Forgiveness is not an easy work specially when you're hurt too much. Can you say sorry immidately to the one who hurts you? For me I can't do that right after your war, but maybe after few days I can forgive and ask sorry even if I am not the one who made the mistake. How about you?
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12 Jun 11
Everyone made mistakes before. Even you right? Just forgive and forget! Do you want him/her to feel guilty forever in his/her entire life? It will affect his/her life even more if you don't forgive him/her or something terrible will happen. I know most of them just apologize and do it all over again.They never learn from their mistakes.Don't forgive those jerks!
11 Jun 11
Sometimes I need to forgive to lighten my feelings. I get sick when there is heaviness inside because of hurt and grudge. It's easy to say nice things about forginess but sometimes when you are in a situation, you really find hard to forgive someone. You can only do it when you pray to God and ask forginess. If God can forgive you then why can't you forgive your fellow.
11 Jun 11
I was treated badly once during my highschool. Well before we graduated, we had an open forum for our class. The guy said sorry to me. I cried that time when he said that. I was even infront of the class because I'm one of the forerunners of the open forum activity. Everytime I think about what I did that time now, it pisses me off and I would feel embarassed and thinks "Arggg! Why did I do that!?!" Well, we sometimes would see each other and act like acquantances. I did forgive him but I never really forget about it.
29 Jun 11
I won't say "sorry" if I am the one that is wronged the other person has to be mature enough to ask forgiveness just as I have to be mature enough to ask forgiveness if I wrong someone sometimes if I like someone so much, or when I am deeply in love I will do anything to keep the friendship or relationship going because I used to believe love is unconditional but now I don't do that anymore if the other person doesn't reciprocate, then there is no friendship or relationship because it is true love is unconditional which means I also have to love myself unconditionally If I let other people take advantage of my kindness, that's not doing myself any good :)
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12 Jun 11
It really takes time. Time heals as what others say. Let the time pass by then have your reconciliation. Many things are easier said than done. But look at the little kids, they fight and cry and boxing, and after that, they are friends again as if nothing happens. That is why Jesus said, the kingdom of heaven are for little children because they don't hold grudges.