Why people interested in other life?

Philippines
June 15, 2011 1:48am CST
Can we call them (backfigther) or in Cebuano Libakera....I always say to my self What I did why my relatives,neighoors always talk about me... I am just ordinary human being myalways routine is house and work before school and home...many times I cry bec. I heard bad things about me..
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@ludyvel04 (312)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
Its really common specially to mothers who just stayed in their house all day. Its their daily routine to talk about peoples' lives who passes by. I think they're so fed up with their own lives and problems that's why they talked about others lives for a change. Just neglect them, it won't help you.
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
We can never please everybody as the famous saying goes. So,ignore them,,don't get affected or else you will just end up feeling bad. I know it's not easy to ignore when we hear people gossiping about us. But then again,you need to help your head up high and walk straight in front of them. People who loves to despise or talk bad about other people (which is not true) are losers. So,don't give them satisfaction. Once they feel you are affected,they feel happy and they keep gossiping. But when they felt that you are never been affected,they will soon get tired and stop talking about you. They want to see people's life ruined/spoiled..ignore them,they will never give any help anyway. Smile at them and look straight in the eyes that's the best way to tell them "mind your own business"
• India
15 Jun 11
well i know exactly what you re talking about because i have been the center of everyones bad talks for as long as i can remember.and by everyones i mean my family bunch.its liek i dont even know what their problem is.they just get together and form their lame gang and find someone to target with their crazy talks.they dont care how it makes me look or feel or even how they look saying such crazy things about a normal person.well way more normal than them.cz they are the jobless bunch of people who have nothing better to do other than just backbite about just some person in their own family that they barely even know about.but since i have been dealing with this for so long i have found my own ways to deal with their craziness.if u dont find your ways to counter whatever they say about you then soon enough your gonna find yourself believing in whatever negative they are saying about you.and that could affect your self respect self esteen n all dose stuffs that makes you a person with your own unique character.so basically the first thing you gotta do is compltely ignore.i know thats very hard but only the first few times.pretend like talks like that never happened.when they are saying things about you find your ways to stand up for yourself if u dont have anyone else to do that with you or for you.make them know that no one has the right to be talking about you.confront the situation compeltely.and secondly if u feel like doing tings your way and the fact that people are interested in what you do and judges you is stopping you from doin those things then you gotta tell yourself that as an individual you hae te liberty to be doing whatever you want to do as u wnt it to be done.forget the fact that there are people like that n kep doing a bunch of things your way.n then it will just keep getting easier.and fianlly when you completely find yourself out of others judgements and start giving that attitude like you dont care about what others say or think abt you they are naturally going to give up.all you need is a strong mind.hope you will be able to help yourself with these.
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
There are such people in my workplace and you can't just avoid them in some cases. It's either you will get talked about or someone will talk about someone else to you which are both bad. I generally don't care if someone tries to tell me a gossip because I don't believe that easily. I know it's bad enough to destroy someone else's reputation so I try to lessen it by being one person less who gives the benefit of the doubt. As for those who spreads gossip about me, which already happened several on several instances, I took physical measures multiple times and it worked.
• Philippines
15 Jun 11
There are such people in my workplace and you can't just avoid them in some cases. It's either you will get talked about or someone will talk about someone else to you which are both bad. I generally don't care if someone tries to tell me a gossip because I don't believe that easily. I know it's bad enough to destroy someone else's reputation so I try to lessen it by being one person less who gives the benefit of the doubt. As for those who spreads gossip about me, which already happened several on several instances, I took physical measures multiple times and it worked.
@nezavisima (7418)
• Bulgaria
15 Jun 11
oh nice people always talk.No matter whether it is true or not.I think you should not worry about rather not pay attention. People are curious and a lot want to know. Have a nice day!