My class just started!!

@grace24 (1050)
Philippines
June 16, 2011 7:37am CST
Okay, Last monday my class just started. I'm a little bit nervous that time because I didn't know who my classmates are. I'm ok in the new section where I belong until someone knock on the door because he's late. He is familiar to me and I know him. He is the person that I really hate last last semester because he is boastful and I think he has superiority complex. I remember before, he always compares his grades to me. He always want to excel in anything. I remember seeing him grinning because his scores are higher than me. Will you get annoyed if you are in the same situation? What am i going to do? I am so annoyed by his presence....
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@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Are you in high school? I had to ask since this usually happens during those years. Anyway, you really shouldn't be bothered or annoyed by him. What he does is very typical of an immature and insecure person. And one way to deal with these types of people is to never give them the luxury of seeing you getting annoyed or bothered :)
@grace24 (1050)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
I'm a college student..that's the problem he's old enough to act like that.
@beamer88 (4259)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
So those things still happen in college :) Just focus on your studies and never let whatever he does affect you.
@r0ck_r0ck (1952)
• India
17 Jun 11
That's really nothing, i mean you are gonna face a lots of bigger problems than this and you will have to overcome those decently, anyways i got a lots of people in my class who are always barging about them, trying to prove how they are way superior than me, nothing directly, but i can tell they try to do it indirectly, i totally ignore them, i do what i do best, i go there to study and be with my good friends, so yah i tend to ignore them till they get in to my nerves and i simply don't care about them. and it works good for me!
@grace24 (1050)
• Philippines
18 Jun 11
yes, you are right..this is not a big problem. I'll do my best in school and I will not mind him anymore.
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Well, just ignore him, as simple as that. Show him that he does not exist in your class. People with superiority complex are people who really want show off, trying hard and the worse is they always wanted to be recognize. So instead of hating them, better ignore them and don't let them ruin your precious day..
@grace24 (1050)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Yeah, he's kinda like that..he wants to be noticed by our classmates. He is so grade conscious, he's too much. I'll ignore him so that, he will not ruin my day.
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Okay, first of all my class is not started yet. It will be on June 21, 2011. I am a bachelor of science in computer science at AMA Computer college, 4th Year. If the person I hate so much will be my classmate, what will I am going to do is find the good one on him. We all know that in all person even it is too evil, there is a good side on it. So I am advising you to discover that goodness to him. If you can't then don't mind him. Just understand him because you are the one who has an understanding. I know you are more than 40 plus on your classroom so there's nothing to worry about. But, learn to love the person you hate most. Jesus says that "Love Your Enemies". Good Luck to you and to that person.
@grace24 (1050)
• Philippines
18 Jun 11
Haha..you got it right..Maybe I can't see the goodness in him because i'm blinded by the hatred i felt for him. Ok, maybe I'll try to follow your advice.XD.. Well, anyway goodluck in your upcoming class.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
16 Jun 11
Hello. Do you know a friend try to think positive. Think about it that you will meet new people will find other friends. I guess that the new environment you'll like. However, always gather with friends and divide people. Be nice day peaceful.
@gEa_88 (67)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
I believe in the phrase that says "if you're the one affected or got angry, then you are on the losing side"...His presence affecting you will make him want to annoy you more. If in honesty he is not your type ^_*,For you to win against the feeling, it is best to IGNORE him and say "he's not even worth my annoyance!". Think of him as thin as air and your world will be peaceful. Focus on other things. Compete with and Excel for yourself. Setting your priorities straight, of which IS NOT him, will help you.That is, in my opinion ^_^ goodluck in school! tc
@grace24 (1050)
• Philippines
16 Jun 11
Well, it's obviously that he is not my type. It's just that, I don't know..he has something that is really annoying. Just the same thing again, it's like were competing with each other. You're right I must focus in my studies, I'll try my best to ignore him.
16 Jun 11
I would like to suggest that just don't mind those people who makes your day miserable. Try to focus on some other things that you will gain a lot.. You will just waste your time if you'll give much attention to them. Just focus on your studies,join the club that you want.That's the best thing that you can do.