To tell or no suffer in silence???

South Africa
September 2, 2006 5:52pm CST
Lone, fat wowan needs advice. Do I tell the man that I am interested in him or must I keep my feelings bottled up? to make things more complicated - He is my Boss. If I tell him and go down in flames, then our working relationship could suffer. So what do you think?
8 responses
@shadowauror (1517)
• India
26 Nov 06
go easy on him ... be friendly ... try to get close to him ..watch out for his body language..of its favourable go right ahead!!!
• India
26 Nov 06
i dont think anything about this topic.
• Italy
3 Sep 06
Good luck to you, girl! LOL
@missyann73 (1457)
• United States
3 Sep 06
good luck to you
@bhchy1 (6052)
• United States
3 Sep 06
Unless he shows an interest in you outside of the work pace..no..work place relationships are a disater in the making. Your feelings could be the result of being closet o him all the time..so he is always in yoru focus..in another setting he may hold no attraction at all.
@missyann73 (1457)
• United States
3 Sep 06
how long have you worked for him? I think it is not a good ideal at the present. continue to work for him, and be friendly, and maybe once in a while try to flirt with him, dont be to over-powering, and see what his reaction is. last of all, if you need to work, and enjoy this job, is it worth it?
• United States
3 Sep 06
I just don't think it's a good idea. He isn't a co-worker, he's your boss. I am sorry but if he says no, it will be awkward and if he says yes and you break up it'll be worse because it will be awkward with the entire office. Not a good idea, I'm sorry.
• United States
3 Sep 06
You have to go slow with it. In a friendly moment, ask what he thinks about dating coworkers. If he favors it, try to ask him out to lunch or coffee. Move carefully until you have a good moment to say you've been feeling closer to him lately. Check his response. It may not work out, but at least you'll know.