The extramarital affair of your husband

Philippines
June 19, 2011 6:48pm CST
I watched an old movie in the television last night and the plot of the movie was about a wife whose husband and children didn't like her. It was a simple story of a wife whose husband was happier with his paramour or other woman while the children were all happy with their Aunt, who all wished to be their mom. Despite all these, the wife didn't confront his husband when she found out about his extra marital affair as she wanted to keep her family. Do you think it's fair? What will you do if it happens to you?
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• United States
20 Jun 11
Oh wow, this would be terrible and unfortunately for the husband I would have to let him go. No if and or buts, about it. I can't tolerate cheating as I am very loyal and this would be way too devastating for me, so no excuses I would have to let him go. It is not fair for the woman you spoke about in the film, and not fair for anyone to be cheated on.
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• Philippines
21 Jun 11
Isn't it stupidity to stay by your husband who doesn't love you and who loves another woman? Some women choose to be martyr. We can't do anything about it. We'll just hope that someday they will wake up and leave that cruel world.
@rmnrmn (688)
• India
20 Jun 11
I totally agree with you hardworkinggurl. But sometimes helpless lady those who are poor and nowhere to go bear such painful situation! I know a lady who is still with her cheated husband. Her husband married the maid in their house which was kept by her. I really shocked when I hear it and ask that lady why still living here and she answered, she has no one else in this world to go and chosen to live with this cruel truth. I felt so sad for her :-(
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
No one in their right minds would think this is fair. I'd love to see this movie, though. May I know what's the name of this movie? Sounds interesting to me, I'll search it on torrent sites or maybe someone I know has a copy of it.
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
Sorry, I didn't get the title of the movie. It is a Filipino movie starrd by Ricky Davao.
• Philippines
21 Jun 11
Ricky Davao? Then it must be an old movie. Might probably watched it before but I'm not sure. My brother is a Filipino movie enthusiast and he watches a lot of it whenever he's at home that's why most of us know some things about them.
• Philippines
21 Jun 11
Ricky Davao? Then it must be an old movie. Might probably watched it before but I'm not sure. My brother is a Filipino movie enthusiast and he watches a lot of it whenever he's at home that's why most of us know some things about them.
@savypat (20216)
• United States
20 Jun 11
This happens in many families, one parent is favored over the other and even if that parent steps outside the marriage they are forgiven by those who favored them. Once my Hubby stepped outside the marriage I never again allowed myself to fully trust him. I also no longer trusted my happyness to another person, even my children. I was hurt so badly I just cut myself off and maybe that was healthly I am now totally responsible for my own happiness.
• Canada
20 Jun 11
hi doris, i dont think its really fair. but how come the father and the kids dont like her? that is truly sad. :( i have a boyfriend now and it was a year ago when i found out he was cheating on me. until now, i find instances that he is cheating but not literally seeing other woman only that he'd tell other girls he love them and misses them and calls them with endearment. i often confront him about it but he often tells that it is nothing and that he loves me more, those girls he talked to were just passer-by's.. my relationship with him is fun especially if i forget about how he hurt me but everytime i remember it, it makes me cry all over again.. i cant leave him yet because im not yet ready and also i am afraid that the next guy ill be with is far worse than him.. sometimes i wish i have professor x's power so i would be able to guard myself.. its really pathetic.. i think ill end up like the girl in the movie you watched, i hope not though.. what movie is it?
• Philippines
21 Jun 11
Oh, I am running out of words .. I don't know what to say. Thank you for being so honest even if many girls would disagree with you. I wish you all the luck with your boyfriend.
• Canada
23 Jun 11
i know, even my workmates did, when they first heard my story.. im just in love.. hahahaha take care doris :D
@rmnrmn (688)
• India
20 Jun 11
The decision totally depend on a tolerance level in a relationship. Sometimes, a wife take divorce for having girlfriend of her husband while some lady bear the pain of second married by her husband and continue living together with that broken family. Specially, if the lady is helpless and nowhere to go but staying with his current husband, tolerate such pain.
@elida279 (165)
• Bulgaria
20 Jun 11
Oh, it's really a sad story, but how on earth did this woman let this happen? I mean if her husband stopped loving her it's ok, people tend to change with the time, but to reach a level that her own children don't like her as well it's really strange. I can imagine what kind of mother is she and what life they are living. Well, if I find out that my husband is cheating on me I would definitely confront him and ask for explanation but the trust will be lost forever.
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
20 Jun 11
For me it is blind affair so be it and take it lose rather than suffer it forever in your life.