Cross connection

@shibham (17025)
India
June 27, 2011 11:09am CST
There was an unknown call in my number that i received from a girl almost three months ago. Okay, i replied her politely saying that its a wrong number. Next she began to call me quiet often asking my conditions and carriers. No problem, next she began to ask me about my love that i was not totally interested to share with her because her motives and intentions already began to irritate me. So, lately i ignored her number but from last week she has begun to irritate me with several numbers. .... today, she has called me five times from three numbers and made me disturbed where as i was in my study room. I already told her not to call me at day time, but she dont understand.... on the other hand, i cant change my number too as i have been with this number from 2005 and most persons know me with this number. So this is my worst experience regarding cross connection..... PLEASE SHAVE ME FRIENDS FROM THIS GIRL. Oh... forgot to say, my neighbor girl who has absconded with an unknown guy whom she knew through cross connection. So, share your experiences ( good or bad) reagarding cross connection and give me some advices to get rid off from her torture. have a nice day to you all.
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19 responses
@thesids (22358)
• Bhubaneswar, India
27 Jun 11
Hi mamu Reading most of your discussions I wonder what is wrong with me. These Girls, Ladies and likes, never call me up or visit me... and they are always there to waste your time.... Instead of feeling lucky and the Chosen One why are you so upset?
• Philippines
28 Jun 11
@ thesids, For sure Shiby is enjoying the attention because if not he can simply ignore them
• Philippines
28 Jun 11
Haha,there's nothing wrong with you Sids,you're just not available anymore that's why,haha! Hi bhaby!
• Philippines
28 Jun 11
@ MTR, i think shiby can give some ladies to Sids so he will be in trouble with his wife
@Sreekala (23716)
• India
28 Jun 11
Hello shibham, I don’t have any suggestions for you because the problem is there for long time and the reality is, you are enjoying all these troubles. If you wish to solve the problem you could do it by yourself long before. Your reason, for not changing the number is, not a genuine one. It has been long time and you could have contacted major part of your friends and save or write down all of their numbers by this time. Then get a new sim and slowly you can inform the new number to all of your friends. Anyway I am happy that now the topic is out for your mylot friends; let us hope they have some good suggestions for you. I don’t have any such problem and I know how to handle it well if any such issue arises. Learn to say a ‘No’ wherever it is necessary.
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
Hi sree.. Have i ever poured kerosine on your dinner that you dislike me this way and enjoy me having on torture? Oh... great but that girl uses multiple numbers and its very hard to predict who is calling. Again, as most my familiar number got deleted from my mobile, hence all important numbers are not named on my cell. So, i cant reject an unknown call and obligated to receive but who knows there is voice from that same figure? Grrrrrrr... You better know how handle, yes. Okies. will give your number to some guys here.... have a nice day.
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@Sreekala (23716)
• India
29 Jun 11
Sorry for being so rude but you deserve this If you give my number to any guy, I can easily change my number. My friend's numbers are handy for me... but you will definitely lose a friend if you dare to do it.
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
Oh clap clap clap... yes yes, i really deserve it. hmmmmm.... Do you think that i can share your number without your permission?
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@surekharathi (14134)
• India
5 Feb 12
Shibham you asked in my family no man how danger is your question. In my family man are also but in photo only women because man photo is separate there no place for man otherwise no face was seeing. Mostly cross connection is not good and dont take the benefit of cross connection. But told the person sorry this is cross connection. I am not that person which you want. If she is calling again and again then ask or told her why you are calling ever after I am telling this is cross connection and if she is calling you on any place then dont go there because somebody making some danger plan. Really now dont trust on anybody.
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@shibham (17025)
• India
6 Feb 12
Hi bhavi... Deverji kaha gaya? (where is deverji?). Hope you will post that picture to make me convinced. She is already out of my touch as i disturbed her more than she did to me. When you cant control someone with sweet verse then muct have to use a little bitter. have a nice time.
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
hi shiby, It seems all the girls are interested in you but yet you don't find the one Maybe you can try dating her then tell her your calling rules and regulations Your didi told me that you have 29 ladies hahaha No wonder by the way she is beside me happy mylotting
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
Yes, because my mind is not accepting her... i am searching my dreamgirl. you better know where? Dating? grrr.... no time for such love. Didi is always there, i know. Have a nice day.
• Philippines
29 Jun 11
I don't understand you really You want to find your dream girl but you want someone to do it for you You are dreaming for your dream girl but you don't know what love is You better stay single So stop dreaming may you have a nice day!
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
@jaiho2009 (39001)
• Philippines
27 Jun 11
hello shiby, That was long ago huh,and she still keeps your number. If you really don't want to communicate with her,then simply tell her that you are married...i guess that can help for the meantime. Unless you want to know her better
• Philippines
28 Jun 11
@ jaiho, Shiby is too good doesn't know how to refuse
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
Yes didi, shibham never lies. she already know that i am unmarried but yesterday night i was too rude to her. Hope she will not make a call to me. @bhaby.. dont be silly dear.
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• Philippines
29 Jun 11
@ shiby Me silly? I am not I'm childish right?
@mtrguanlao (5527)
• Philippines
28 Jun 11
Namaste amigo! I've heard one time from a friend that her cellphone has a "blocking feature" for those unwanted messages and calls. I think you should ask your server on how to do it. I know you are just being a gentleman to your ladies amigo,hehe! So I guess that blocking feature will work for you. The reason why she keeps on doing that to you amigo is because you did answer her before,if you did not answer her not even once,she should have stoppped in the first place. So let that be a lesson to you amigo,next time you encounter a new number,ignore it at once. As to my experience,if a number is new to me,I just immediately ignore and delete it. See yah!
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
No amiga... i have not that feature and yet she calls me from various numbers. I have asked my service provider but they have said that then can block but how many? as i dont know the proper answer. yes, now i am regretting why i answered to her calls earlier and my parents are also scolding me that why as they are informed about it. Even they have received her calls too. I have been lessoned amiga really.... have a nice day.
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• Philippines
29 Jun 11
If you don't know the proper answer amigo to your service provider,you can always ask them what to answer,ask them your options that you should have. It is only them who can help you from blocking her calls. Kindly tell them you don't understand what is ask of you until you will know amigo. It's your only chance amigo since you don't want to change your number. Hope you'll resolve this soon. Take care amigo!
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
but viji have provided a funny idea and i am about to follow her amiga. Thanks for your advices.
@stanley777 (7177)
• Philippines
28 Jun 11
I guess the only thing members in this community can do to save you from this girl is through advises from us your co-mylotters.Since you have said that you have done everything you can think of just to stop this girl from calling you, maybe you can meet her personally and talk to her face to face that you don't want anything that concern her.And calling you anytime she wants really irritates you.I guess you can not block her call since she uses many numbers just to reach you. Good luck my friend I hope you can find a way to stop her if you really don' want to get involved with her.
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
Hi stanley... Yes, that may be a better option to talk to her face to face and convince her that i am irritated by her. But i think as i did some rude communication last night, hence i think she will not call me again, if she then definitely i will try to meet her. yes, she uses many numbers. Thanks for wishes and have a nice day.
• Philippines
29 Jun 11
Seeing her may be a good idea, maybe she just want to be your friend and wants to know more about you.I'm just kidding my friend. Since you said you have answered her rudely the last time she called, I just hope it's the end of it.Good day my friend.
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
No, i dont think she just wanted to be my friend. Her intention is something different as i can guessed. hmmm... may be my action work.
@surekharathi (14134)
• India
28 Jun 11
Yes friend I face this problem but not call again and again. One day on my laneline number a call has came and ask me where is younger bhabhi I tell her no younger bhabhi is not stay here because my dever is not get married. Only elder bhabhi is here and I ask her who is you? which no. you wants she replied me I want Darda's No. I said no this Rathiji's no. you call on wrong no. then she is laughing and I also laughing. Second time on my mobile a cross connection is attached when I was calling on my husband's no. one lady is saying something in the middle. Then I was laughing and my husband was telling me who is she? I say I dont know I think cross connection. Some time when cross connection or wrong no. has came I enjoyed this.
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
Hi surekha.. Oh.. you enjoy it. Will you give your number so that i can provide it to her and have a lots of enjoyment. hahaha Those type of cross connection occurred in my life many times where i had fun too but this times, its too much and very hard to tolerate. have a nice day.
• India
29 Jun 11
Hmmmmmm if I will call her then she will tell you ohhh no which girl phone no. is gives me she is bored because I am a talkative as well as comedy women. My family likes me because on my sentence they always laughed. Because my way of talking is comedy. Definitely she will laugh after talk with me.
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
Okies. so it means you are ready to enjoy her torture. You dont know even can predict how much irritated she is. Better stay healthy. hahahaha oh... lets have fun here.
@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
27 Jun 11
Hi shibham, Well we can shave" you easily but to "save" would be a bit difficult. lol. Look gentleman the girl by mistake called your number which very often happens. Yesterday I was trying to call a number but (un) fortunately it reached a lady and the voice modulation of the unknown lady was so charming that I would listen to her until the next flood. The girl perhaps took interest in you and wiling to become the other half of yours, you could have given her a chance. Who knows she could make you the best wife.
@thesids (22358)
• Bhubaneswar, India
28 Jun 11
Rajibda you went for the right one here... SHAVE Maybe shiby should give this girl my call number and tell her he will be on this number
@krajibg (11936)
• Guwahati, India
28 Jun 11
Chhotu, how is your health now? Ya, he could pass the number to me too. I would not mind. I will call him to text message the number to you and me and who knows there would be new version of EK PHOOL DO MALI
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
Hi bossssss... Why are you pushing me to hell dear? have i ever snatched away your pizza? Why you wish to see me in danger? I will surely call bhabi that you are asking a girl's number. @mamu.... I shall send the numbers to you and your's to her. then enjoy the torture and get divorced with bhabi....
• India
27 Jun 11
LoL.......you are on your own........how do you expect oue fellow mylotters to save you from this mess...................
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
Yes. my friends have saved me from several problems earlier... as a newbie, you may not aware about it. have a nice day.
• United States
5 Jul 11
Lol, as a "newbie". Looks like you're in an awkward situation.
@shibham (17025)
• India
6 Jul 11
newbie?
@JenInTN (27565)
• United States
1 Jul 11
Sounds like you have a hand full..lol..maybe you could just tell her not to call you anymore. Sometimes bluntness is the only way to go. I have never really had any wrong numbers that comtinued to call. Take care.
@shibham (17025)
• India
3 Jul 11
Hi jen.... may be a hand like that but glad to inform you that she has not called me from the next day of starting this discussion as i was rude to her on next day. Have a nice day.
• Pamplona, Spain
28 Jun 11
Hiya shibs, Had not thought of multiple numbers being used by her. Again you could bookmark all of your Friends and like someone else says just ignore the rest if you can. She must have a lot of money to be able to have so many different Cards then if she does. Here you would need a fortune to use Cards like that. Now you have to put your name and Id on every Card you buy. Before you could buy loads of Cards freely but not now.xxx
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
I think all her cards not her own, she must call from others or PCO.... thanks for the advices again. Take care.
• Pamplona, Spain
28 Jun 11
Hiya shibs, Thesids is funny he is wondering what is wrong seeing as he can´t get all that attention (grin) I like that. Can´t you block her on your Mobile Phone? I don´t what kind of Phone you have but you might be able to. What I would do is to put her in your Phone Book thing on your Phone and give her a name so that when she calls you can see who she is and avoid her and see if she gives up. Failing that maybe you have to pay for that service to block her out until she gets tired which she eventually might. This what I did with one that called me all hours of the Day it was a Man I have never heard of in my life and I just saw him come up on the Screen and ignored him totally. He did give up I suppose it´s his way of trying to find someone to talk to so I was not annoyed I just put him in the Phone Book and when he gave up I deleted him. It can get to be very annoying in another case I was being pestered all afternoon by someone who was just out to annoy people and I ignored it after two "wrong numbers" and they gave up too. You should feel very flattered like "thesids" says I suppose in another way not. This is my only suggestion and don´t put the answering thing on for her as she might get addicted to that and like listening to your voice no joke here either so just ignore her all you can. Twenty nine ladies shibs you are a one you really are.xxx I just read that in "bhaby"´s response on this page. xxx
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
Hi angel.. I provide his numbers to all those girls whom i know this way and be sure his divorce letters will be about to sign after some days..... because i know that some girls can do anything and sids stay alone at that time.... chances are there that they may arrive his place after a good contact with him... and later you better what will happen once bhabi( his wife) sees him in duo. No, i cant block her as i have not the feature on my cell. Most often male harassed female but this is the first time that female has harassed male and the sufferer is myself a poor guy. Last night, i treated her with an another way and hoping that she will not call me again, if she does so, then i shall provided her numbers to all naughty guys here that i know. Then she will get a lesson.... have a nice day.
@bingchen (1126)
• China
28 Jun 11
i think that you should ignore this call from strangers.although i met this thing from unknown call.but i know someone who have some motive and intention to cheat other people and let them lost property or others,i often see the newspaper that often report this thing happen,so i often could not receive this call.otherwise,it takes some trouble with me.
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
Hi bingchen.... where were you from a long while? missed you. Thanks for return. hmmm, you are right and still suggest you not to receive any unknown call. I am already suffered. Have a nice day.
• China
28 Jun 11
hahaha, it sounds like u go down with girls. But u feel torturing cause the girl call u by many different number. Ya, if i were u i'll abuse her loudly. You just tell her not to call u again because u dont enjoy the communication with her. Waiting for ur good news:)
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
Hmm.... laughing ? where as i am in tortures..... huh. yes last night i abused her badly and think that she is not to call me anymore. have a nice day. wait wait.....
• United States
27 Jun 11
call in to who you have your phone company and have them block your number. and or hers keep track of were she calls from. if you block your number they will have to go threw something first to get ahold of you. worth a try doesnt always work.
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
Hi friend... Impossible because she uses several numbers and how many numbers they will block? Again she may use an another number unknown to me. Have a nice day.
@roneal (62)
• Mexico
27 Jun 11
wow, what an unusual situation for you to be in. Sounds to me like the girl might have some nuts loose in that head of hers if she is still calling at times when you told her not to. I dont know where you are but,in the US, you can put a harrassment warrant on her if it gets out of hand. You would just tell the police that she is bothering you and they can trace the calls. You can also block any and all numbers that she has called from by calling your service provider. Eventually, she will run out of numbers and patience Im sure about calling you.Otherwise, do not give her hope and tell her that she can call at a certain time..simply tell her that she can not call at all if that is what you want..best of luck to ya!
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
hi roneal... Yes. it seems to that she has some nuts really loosed. why she does not understand that this is not the proper way to communicate with an unknown guy? I am from India and i also can do that as you have mentioned that a police case but actually i dont wish to give her some punishment like that as she is a female. No, no way, i dont wish to receive any call from her and have told her last night rudely. have a nice day.
@CTHanum (8254)
• Malaysia
27 Jun 11
Hi Shiby. If you don't like her then just ignore her and soon she will realized that you are not interested to her. Are you sure that you don't want to know her?? You are searching for someone right? Perhaps you could add her in your list. Perhaps he is searching for someone too~ If you don't want to befriend with her then avoid her calls or you block her numbers. Don't answer calls from those numbers. Perhaps you could make her as your next ladies in your story and tell your experience about that.
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
hi hanum... No, she is not to realized as far my prediction is concerned. I have told her indirectly various time and directly more than twice that i am not interested to her, yet she never stops herself from doing those activities. yes, she is so smart in using several numbers but i last night i was rush to her. No she not to be a heroine. Have a nice day.
@eshaan (6193)
• India
27 Jun 11
hi shibham ... i never had any experience with such wrong numbers...my conversation has been limited with such people and there was never a chance that someone unknown became my friend in such way....
@shibham (17025)
• India
29 Jun 11
Hi eshaan... hmmm... thats nice to hear from it. I also try to make it limited but this girl never listen to me as she changes her number. Have a nice day.