why are friends so hard to find

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I'm posting this in Louisiana because maybe it just has something to do with the people here. I made friends so easily visiting other places and even online. But when it comes to making friends around where I live, I might as well give up. I meet people everywhere, stores, the beach, the park. And I still cannot find a decent friend. The women I meet either stay drunk or high, or they try to steal my husband. Or they are so two faced and I'm just a topic for her other friends to laugh at.I don't mind people who drink occasionally, I do, but when these women have little kids and no one else to watch their kids and still drink all day, I can't deal with that. And then the women who think my husband will cheat on me. Seriously? Most of them had a man already yet they still flirt with my husband. Why do I attract these kind of people? Is it me or is it where I live? In Oregon I made good friends in just days. Here I've been trying for years... all I want is someone to hang out with. Someone that hhas kids for my kids to play with. Why is this so hard?