Burdened by your past experiences or are you able to move on in life ...

Hi sanjay, thanks a lot for your response ! what you say is absolutely right,all life is a learning process and we have to take life as it comes each day and each minute.Life is short and before you know it is over so make the most of it - all the best and happy mylotting

Thanks a lot sanjay, may be it is time for a change and I can put one of my own pictures again...take care and all the best

That is true. Anyway how are you? Nice dp but your own picture was looking more good.

Graphology is - study and analysis of handwriting. Graphology helps know about a persons's traits and his mental state of affair and it suggests some remedial measure to change our thinking pattern. You can always count your blessings and can recall happy moments of past. However, always getting lost in past does no good to us.

Ok I got it...In fact I know of someone here in my place who is considered to be an expert on this.It is fascinating the way they can analyse a person's characteristics based on hand writing....I am not sure if that would be 100% correct. We had a funny incident sometime back when one of my friend's had consulted a palmist and he came up with many of her personality traits and the remedial measures where required.She came back and was telling us " I never knew about all these traits in me do any of you know? lol...After a few days she began imagining and even unconsciously began to mould herself o these personality traits mentioned by the palmist.Later when we all pointed this out to her she reaised it - just goes to show what an impact a well times suggestion has on an individuals mind..

Hi deepak,Thanks a lot for your response. By the way what is graphology? I have never come across this term so far..sounds interesting ! I do have some memories of my past which are very fear to me and I cling on to them and draw a lot of strength from it. Most of these memories are of my childhood , school and growing up days which were all wonderful and happy days ...But yes one should have nothing to do with negativity in life, it is sure to make us stagnate in life without going anywhere ..

Hi sizzle, thanks a lot for your responseWhen one is young it is difficult to be philosophical, I guess with age you change your whole outlook towards life and that's what makes it easier for people to let go and move on in life. Your daughter too will learn to do so in time....all the best

hi kiran madam, thanks for the response,what ever we do even little thing raise hand also dictated by the luck and fate only,but we are counting them in that list,and thinking that that is we are doing this and that,with out the permission of god even a pin may not move,this i think you know,so i am leaving everything on god,what ever comming in my mind i am doing,but i am not saying that i am good or bad man,i am middle man with good and bad,have a nice day

Sreedhar since I have no belief in God in your sense of the term - that he is omnipresent and every single thing in this world is attributed to him, I don't think that we can leave everything on god.We have to shape our life and do what needs to be done....It is not fair to expect someone else to take care of things for us...

Hi sreedhar,I disagree with those views.We have to take hold of our lives and change it for the better and not wait for fate or destiny.Afterall we do a lot of other things in our life on our own so why not this as well...what do you say?

Hi visminda, I dont know how I missed your response, am really sorry not to have commented back .I agree with your views and feel that it is always better to forget,forgive and move on in life rather than keep on remembering the past and make yourself and others around you unhappy ! all the best and thanks a lot for sharing your views, enjoy the week ahead

Hi visminda,well said ! It is always better to forget and move on. I am not so sure if we can forgive certain deeds, but as long as we forget or put the memories right at the back , life would go on as before ...I agree that it is an unwanted excess baggage we carry which slows down and hinders our life and we need to get rid of it - thanks a lot for your response and all the best

I agree that time heals everything...It is always better to move on instead of carrying the burden of hate or unhappiness with us all through our life..

Hello Kiran. Sometimes it is easy to forgive but hard to forget. It is then better to start that way, for one who was offended could certainly move on slowly. Later on, forgetting follows. It just needs time for the wound to get healed.

Hi SHAMRACK, That's very true, we have but one life and there is no point in wasting it away on past issues or unpleasant thoughts. I have seen some people constantly living in the past refusing to move on simply because they feel that they are being ungrateful about the past...thanks a lot for your response and all the best

Hi Gemma, we all make mistakes in life and may make the mistakes again and again. It has happened with me and I am still learning lol...As long as you feel bad and are able to realise your mistakes , there is always scope for change and dont keep feeling guilty.Making amends when you get an opportunity would definitely help, we are all human and we all make many mistakes in life since no one is born perfect...all the best and happy mylotting

Hi ebuscat, It need not be a person alone, it can be any sort of experience which has made us unhappy...It is better to forget and move on as you say - all the best and thanks a lot for your response

Hi sanijas, thanks a lot for your response Everybody has some unpleasant experience and disappointments in life. I agree with your view that it is better not to dwell on the past remain depressed.It is better to move on and also help others when we get an opportunity to do so...all the best