How Can I

United States
July 8, 2011 7:00pm CST
I don't know how to be happy sometime because everytime I try to be happy something seems like it has to destroy it, I have a lot going in right now in my mind and I don't know how to deal with it I know that I might have to have some one pray over me sometime I feel that when you are going through alot I think that it means that your soul is in trouble you know, maybe I need someone to get rid of the demons that surround me in the name if Jesus I mean I need them to leave me alone and let me live my life in happiness and in glory, I pray to Jesus himself to let the harm that tries to harm me just let me be I don't need this right now you know, I have suffered and I know that I have but I'm tired. I want to fly above the drama and live ok and keep it moving. have any of you felt that way.
11 responses
@stanley777 (9402)
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
Hi walking2010, I guess some of us have undergone the same thing as what you are experiencing right now.Just don't lost hope my friend and always look on the brighter side of life.There are many things to be happy about in life.You must learn to accept who you are and what you are capable of. Life is a continuous struggle that's why it's interesting.You should go out with friends and have fun.Don't make it to hard for yourself.
• Philippines
12 Jul 11
Yes, we all are given challenges to deal with in our life.Just look on the positive side because God will never never abandon us, just turn to Him if you think you are failing.Wish you all the best my friend.
• United States
12 Jul 11
Yes I will do my best, I have always look towards the best and to keep going thanks again.
@sanjay91422 (2725)
• India
9 Jul 11
Hi, I think you are right with your decision about the person. Never trust anyone unknown on the internet. You should have a friend ship with the person first who is trying to exchange or want money from you. It is okay to help people but the one you are talking about is a scam and you will not help him/her but will get cheated.
• United States
12 Jul 11
I know I just have to find out what it is that I can make happen to make me happy maybe i am just going through modes of spiritual I don't know I need to figure it out though I think I know what it is just like I told the last person that responed to me It feels like something always has to hendure me from accomplishing what I want and need. It seems as if I have hurddles for days.
• India
9 Jul 11
I just realized that I posted on the wrong discussion here. I just read another discussion and posted the response over here, a mistake from me. Coming to your point I think it is easy to be happy once you are happy with yourself. Do what you really love to do and soon you will feel contented with yourself. You would love your self more than ever before and surely you will become a more happy person.
• India
9 Jul 11
I am sufferer of the same pain. Whenever I smile,a feeling is always there in my mind that may be I am smiling for the last time. Sometimes I do feel that if I could managed to run away from the known society that may would give me mental peace. I have lost a very close person in my life and from then people started to exploit me and mt father.If I just copy your comments and paste it then I would have make no difference.When I read it I felt that you are explaining my life.you know something!whenever I trusted someone he/she is the 1st one to do back stabbing.In due course of time I trusted someone more than myself.But very recently the person also left me for ever.If by any means I got my mom back I would be the happiest person in this world. At least I would have got a solder to cry, a lap to take rest. Today what I need is a shelter. A person who can understand me.Or else I need none. I am happy with my father.I am tired of everything. I am tired of getting hurt by the people whom I trusted the most.
• United States
12 Jul 11
I know how you feel because when we are down and out and we feel like we have no one to talk to we feel that we can trust a certain person because we let our guard down and when we do that we let the wrong people in and then we are talked about, then they try to come back and say sorry for this and that, then they expect for you to forgive them after they knew what they where doing in the first place. So I know all about being stabbed in the back. Life is crazy sometime you know we don't know whether we are coming or going you know I guess we carry the hurt after we have been so much and then it seems as if it has not gotten no better.
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
Always try to see the positive things in life. Always look on the bright side of life and you will see happiness. It's all in the mind. I think over worrying is a self inflicted thing. It is natural for human beings to have that kind of feeling. However, in my opinion, having that kind of feeling at prolonged time is just self inflicted pain. I suggest that you try to relax and clear yourself of negative thoughts.
• United States
12 Jul 11
But thats the thing I have positive thoughts a lot but then something negative happens to my positive thoughts.
@bluespygirl (2112)
• Philippines
11 Jul 11
just keep praying to HIM. I know in time, everything will be okay in your life. I am having difficult time in my lfe too for how many years now but I'm still here. I believe that in toughest time of our life, no one can really help us except God and yourself. Always wear a smile and have a positive outlook even it may seem far. Kep going friend. :)
• Philippines
15 Jul 11
Right bluespygirl. He neds to pray and everything will be fine. :)
• United States
9 Jul 11
It sounds like an anxiety/depression issue. Everyone goes through this at some point in their lives. There could be something your doctor can help you with. Having a belief can sometimes help people through tough times but sometimes other types of help is needed. Therapy may help too and if your religious then you might want to find a therapist with the same religious beliefs. I was raised Catholic and always worrying that I was doing something wrong made the anxiety/depression worse. Also sometimes taking an outside view can help. Imagine you know someone else having the same problems... What advice would you give them?
• United States
12 Jul 11
I guess the things that I go through will be a testimony for someone else that is going through what i went through.
@kaylachan (58119)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Jul 11
Life can be complicated and you can't always be happy all of the time. You might want to, but that's not always possible. However, try not to let it get to you to the point you're suffering from depression. It's simply not healthy. And, believe me not worth it. It can be so easy not to think of anything but bad, but remember everyone goes through rough patches. The key is to find something positive to focous on. Everyone has something that makes them smile, you're no different. I'm sure you've got someone out there who cares about you. There is something out there that's worth smiling about, you just have to find it and hang onto it. Trust me on this one. I have a lot going against me, but I find something to keep me going... to keep me happy. I'm sure you can too.
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
When I was a kid, I thought life would be easier but it's now. The simpliest thing we want in life is to be happy but it's the hardest to attain. Just hold and keep on going. Life is hard but we have to be strongYou can do it.
• United States
12 Jul 11
Thanks I know when we where kids everything seemed so easy then I guess because you had less to maintain, but then there were times when we thought cetain things would not go away I guess just like now its just different things that we want now.
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
15 Jul 11
I feel that sometimes but I just keep myself busy and go shopping if I ain't broke. Just chill walking2010. Always wear a smile in your face, that makes you more beautiful. :) Just be hapy and be contented of what yuo have and for sure you'll be happy! I wish you the best in life Godbless
@meemii (28)
• United States
9 Jul 11
Happiness is hard to attain. It sounds like you feel tortured. Keep pouring your feelings out here on myLot, or in journals, or talk to a minister, or trusted friends, and yes pray. Don't bottle your feelings up until they feel insurmountable. Sometimes you have to start with the simple things in life that make you feel good. Do you enjoy exercising, or taking walks, listening to music, reading a good book, enjoying a nice cup of tea, a bubble bath what? Find what makes you happy and as long as it doesn't hurt others, do it often.
• United States
12 Jul 11
Yeah i try not to bottle my feelings up because when you do you will go off at the wrong time and you never know what you are capable of that is why I write alot or dance that is one of the ways to get rid of my anger but its not exotic LOL i just Hip hop dance at home when the music is on. LOL thanks for your response.
@jdex_143 (1093)
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
Hi, there! I'm worried with you upon reading your posting. Try to be optimistic as much as you can. :) Happiness depends on how people react on the situation they are on. Don't think too much on your problems in life. Try to enjoy every minute of an hour because you can't go back in time. Don't waste your time being lonely and sad. Try to be happy and enjoy life! It's great! :)
• United States
12 Jul 11
You are right I will focus on the family that I have and love me most and is there for me I have wonderful kids and a wonderful fiance, that loves me dearly its just alot within me that I have endured as an individual, you know I want to be able to support and give my family the love they want and need from me. thanks so whatever it is that is trying to hold me down i will beat it.