What is your desired AGE to be MARRIED?
By Arnel_24
@Arnel_24 (155)
Philippines
July 8, 2011 9:38pm CST
Everyone deserves to have a happy life, to be in love, to have a relationship and to have a partner/spouse.
I heard some news that Most of the youth nowadays are now giving birth and raise their child alone.. Maybe because they are too young to handle this kind of situation.. They can't be married though.
For me, when I got married, I must already have my own house, own car, and enough money to sustain our lives. Maybe I'm 28-35 yrs. old..
10 responses
@tiina05 (2317)
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
hello,
Yes, of course we all have the right to be happy and one main reason of that is getting married. right? So, like you I really love to get married but I must have a house, car, and enough money to provide myself and my family at the same time. In short I first want to be successful and do my goal before doing second chapter of my life. ha ha lol. I wish I can do that. 
@thetis74 (1525)
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9 Jul 11
I think age after 25 is an ideal age to get married. But despite all that matters for people getting married, I think, age don't matter too much because the most important thing is whether or not are you mature enough to face the real world of a married life. The fact that you are sure and ready to face all the responsibilities counts a lot.
@kissmylense (152)
• Malaysia
11 Jul 11
i think 25 suit for women but for man 28 is the right age to marry. If someone mature fast, i think is not enough to marry because they must ready in term of money also.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
9 Jul 11
When one has become self dependent and is between 25 to 30 years of age, i think it is the best time to get married. All the best.
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
17 Jul 11
I am not certain that I desire to be married at all. Certainly not before I am thirty though.
@trose7 (243)
• United States
9 Jul 11
I don't think I will ever get married... I do desire to have a partner, but to me marriage is a religious institution, and I don't need that to solidify my love for someone. However, I may do it just to get the benefits of it, but it's not something I see as necessary or beneficial to do.
@lindaharding627 (1442)
• United States
9 Jul 11
When I was a child, I always said that I would be married and raising kids by the time I was twenty. In real life, I did not find my husband and become a mother until I was twenty seven years old. I think that when you find the right person, you will know it deep in your heart. There is no right or wrong age. I recently read an article about a man who was 96 years old and had never been married and he married an 83 year old widower.
@Xsparky017 (289)
• Philippines
9 Jul 11
My desired age to get marry and have my own family is 26 yo. I must be stable when I turn 26. Got own house, business, job, car and other necessities in life. It's not easy to start and build your own family when you're not yet financially ready. Once you get marry, having a baby is next then bringing them to school and have a good education is a long time obligation. :)
@vivamir (671)
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9 Jul 11
I totally agree with you Arnel.. I think the good old fashioned traditional values of a woman being 'wined and dined' and just getting to know each- have dissolved over the years..
Personally the way you describe your 'set up', is what I am aspiring to.. and I admire you for doing so..x
@kissmylense (152)
• Malaysia
9 Jul 11
this is nice topic to discuss. i think this issue more to women right. because women sensitive with age figure. i respect with your decision to marry at age 28-35. in my opinion age to be married for gurl is atleast 28 years old. my reason is women age above 30 are risking when pregnant. correct me if im wrong..
