Too much trust or they just don't care?
By xcyper2084
@xcyper2084 (152)
Philippines
July 12, 2011 9:38pm CST
My room mate share to me her problem with her family. Sometimes she felt that they just don't care. She live and work independently in the city so sometimes she just felt sadness and depress.I was the one who talk to her to make her feel better. Almost a month that she didn't text her family to test them if they would be worried for her but she got disappointed She was wondering if her family just trust her so much that she could take good care of herself or they just don't care at all...:(
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4 responses
@pinkpiglet (330)
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
Well, maybe your friend doesn't do the same to her family too. Does your friend text or check on your family once in a while? Because if she does, I don't think her family would ignore that. Does your friend go home regularly to just visit and be with them? Because if not, then your friend is also not doing her part as a daughter or a sister. If she wants to feel missed or appreciated, she has to make some efforts too, so her family would think about her more when she's away.
@xcyper2084 (152)
• Philippines
13 Jul 11
My friend is reaching out to them she always text and call them but most of the time they will not answer. Their reasons is their cellphones were in a silent mode or battery low. The saddest part of it her family will only text her when they needed money or help from her.
@TSNature (2)
• China
13 Jul 11
I have the same problem as your friend. Sometimes I don't telephone my parents for one month or a longer time in my depressed period,though they worry about me little, they won't call me back.
when I am a student,it's great for the freedom.but now,I always feel sad and the family would never cross my mind when I feel too terrible.
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@prinzcy (32322)
• Malaysia
18 Jul 11
I probably the same as your friend, except I still live with my mom. However, for these past weeks, she has been staying with my sister to take care of the newborn baby. She did called, to remind me to pay the bills. Apart from that, none. I guess she must has think that I will be fine on my own.
@iamkami (23)
• Vietnam
13 Jul 11
People say that how much you give so much you receive. If she is still interested in her family she should show her soul by many ways - text, phone, visit, meals, gifts... Think and she will find the suitable actions for her and family.
But when they don't have love together, that's time she get tired, she should think for herself more and think actively, do optimistic actions for her life.
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