Do your close friends always stand on your side?

China
July 14, 2011 2:24am CST
i believed friends have a close relationship and they understand each other all the time. But sometimes now when i feel lonely, I start to suspect whether they feel my heart.
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@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
15 Jul 11
Dear friend, I had seen friends who wish to help others but they are helpless at times. But they do have a mind that wished to help others. May be that is great, but if they were capable they would be willing. May be one may have to accept the weakness of our friends too. As all people in this world have weakness. Being a good friend, I feel he will help all as much that friends can do, may be upto the maximum of that freind's capability.
• China
15 Jul 11
your saying is thoughtprovoking to me. You know sometimes we really feel lonely, in a particular circumstance, when god seem to trick you.But after that time, you can still feel your friend so sweet
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
23 Jul 11
I think it often depends on what you consider Close friends if they will stand by your side no matter what. I have quite a few friends that I consider close and are always Very concerned with me when things are happening, and always offering their support and Prayers. Due to the economy it would be hard to lean on any of them for Financial but sometimes just knowing they are concerned makes it more worth while to me.
• Philippines
14 Jul 11
My friends always got my back no matter what. These are true friends. You're able to find true friends if you just make a lot and then sit there and watch while they come and go. Don't hold on to any of them and just let them go as they please. Those who stay are worth being friends with.
@kharlav (1669)
• Philippines
14 Jul 11
Sometimes, our friends feel annoyed if we constantly speak about the same problems over and over again. I experienced being that kind of friend but I just really tried to suck it up until I really had enough of hearing the same kind of problem. Because it came to a point wherein I cant really say anything at all because everything that I will be saying becomes useless because this problematic friend don't seem to take my advice..
@devinim (79)
• India
14 Jul 11
hi friend, welcome to mylot. i have a close friend. she always stand on my side, whether in bad or good. like ways i will stand on her side when she is in need. friendship is something correlated. you have to trust them, then they will automatically trust you. it is from my experience. but i have heard a lot of stories regarding cheating in friendship. i wish i will not be encountered with such a situation.
• Philippines
14 Jul 11
I know that kind of feeling. Coz most of the time i needed one i lost them (mostly). And sometimes on that bad times we will know who the real friends are.
@Althafk (172)
• India
14 Jul 11
Firstofall,I think you are a newbie to Mylot and this is your first post.Frankly speaking,this is the best space over internet,where you can earn money for doing nothing but socializing.Just speak out and make money.Anyway hearty welcome for you. Now comes to the point,I had lot of friends,old friends and my college friends.My friends were always with me with great support when I was having some problems.Same was also with me,there is no need for asking help from friends.It comes on the flow.
@Deepu49 (43)
14 Jul 11
close friends are those who understand our feelings well and they read us well... so sometimes they know where i am going wrong or right.. if they feel i am right they will definetly stand by me...