how to get recover from a hard breakup?

Philippines
July 16, 2011 7:05am CST
please give me some advises on how to get recover to a breakup. my girlfriend and i just broke up last month because she had love someone and thats cheating. i forget her yet cause we have been together fro almost 2 years. help me guys!
4 responses
@resutaa (144)
• Philippines
17 Jul 11
It is indeed hard. Although I haven't experience it yet but I think the most effective way to heal with broken is time. Forget her and accept the fact that your not anymore and try to love yourself again. You will just laugh about it on the next day. You don't have to mourn for loosing her because she is not worthy for your tears.
@Jamie911 (104)
• Philippines
16 Jul 11
i think the best way to recover from a break up is to fall in love again. that's base on my experience but be sure not to take revenge on your new one and trust her much. don't ever think that all of them will break your heart.
• India
16 Jul 11
Its quite indeed difficult to go through situations, OK first of all you need to be calm and make up your mind that you would not think about the stuff, get rid of all the memories which you guys had because that is the key to bring back the depression in your life, now in order to live you have to get yourself busy in some activities, i recommend you to get involved with your friends, hangout, take interest to learn something new, or have a kneen interest to achieve a target. I think all such things would be good enough to recover from the hard breakup. Remember to remain away from loved things say for example love movies something like that, because once the topic grabs your mind again it will be difficult for you to remove, anyways good luck take care, hope you recover soon.
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
16 Jul 11
Breakups are hard and it takes a lot to get over one. When I broke up with my boyfriend I thought I couldn't go on. It was so very difficult and only because of the help of my friend I think I could move on. But seriously, it was so very difficult and I know what you much be going through. Go to some of your close friends and share how you're feeling. Having great friends is always a good thing and they'll help you through anything!!