Moving On

@ayis12 (544)
Philippines
July 17, 2011 3:32am CST
I just wanna to shoutout something. It's been almost a year now. But I find my myself silly sometimes. Like this past few days, I keep remembering someone. But I thought I already forgot that person a long time ago. I dunno why? He keep coming back in my mind. I admit I don't have any feelings for him now.
4 responses
thatgirl13
@thatgirl13 (7294)
• South Korea
17 Jul 11
I sometimes get the same feelings too. It's been about 4years since we broke up but he still comes to my mind sometimes. I swear I don't love him and wouldn't go back to him even if I got a second chance but I don't know why he crosses my mind sometimes. Maybe because the days we had were precious to me and I loved him with all I had. Anyway past is past, no use running back to it.
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ayis12
@ayis12 (544)
• Philippines
17 Jul 11
That's the exact feeling I have right now! Really! I can honestly say the feeling is gone. But I just remember the memories. I dont have plan to going back to him.
naokokensaku
@naokokensaku (529)
• Malaysia
17 Jul 11
It could perhaps be nostalgia and just missing the comfort and security you may have felt with him all that time ago. It could be that you're not really missing him, but you may be missing what you shared. And that's quite normal. After all, you have memories, and just because they appear now and then doesn't mean you feel anything for him anymore.
ayis12
@ayis12 (544)
• Philippines
17 Jul 11
maybe your right. That time I really felt Im very much comfortable. I dont have any fear at all. But all that things are gone now. Maybe thats the reason why I keep remembering. I miss the memories we shared but not the person.
weasel81
@weasel81 (2496)
• Australia
17 Jul 11
good to hear that your moving on. there are times when we think of those we're not with now, and think of how much better of we are now. i know my ex and his family are fishing for information on what i'm doing etc. but they will be in for a shock in after christmas, if things go to plan and i can move house and somewhere compelty different. i should part f my moving on last year with getting a tattoo, as it ment a lot to me.
ayis12
@ayis12 (544)
• Philippines
17 Jul 11
yeah! same as mine. My ex sometimes using different number just text me. He's trying to have info what is happening to me now. Moving on is not really easy at all. Especially when you that someone meant a lot to you.
hardworker1972
@hardworker1972 (311)
• United States
17 Jul 11
You spent an amount of your life with this person. Of course you will have memories. It's good that you realize there are no feelings left. Now you can, as you stated, move on.