What are the essential factors needed to sustain a long distance relation?

@pringu (151)
India
July 18, 2011 8:15am CST
We all talk about long distance relationships a lot, but have we ever thought, what are the necessary aspects that are needed to sustain a long distance relation!. In my opinion sustaining a long distance relation requires lots of trust and understanding and also a broad mind. For sure, a narrow minded person is never going to have a satisfied long distance relation since, he/she would always doubt whenever his/her mate doesn't go according to his/her thoughts. Also a long distance relation requires more emotional understanding than in case of a short distance relation, since, the couples don't get to see each other more often. Similarly, there are lots of other factors that determines a successful long distance relation! What are the ones you guys feel, are the cornerstones of a very successful long distance relationship?
4 responses
• Philippines
8 Oct 12
I have a successful long distance relationship with my partner, we've been through for almost 4 years. I am so blessed that I have found him. He is from Thailand and I am from Philippines but I can still feel that we are both attached to each other and we have a daughter that binds us, I love him so much and happy to be with him.
@miaka05 (16)
• Philippines
5 Oct 12
My first relationship is a long distance one. Well, it needs a lot of trust and assurance that both of you wouldn't cheat and betray each other's TRUST. There should always be OPEN COMMUNICATION and the couple needs to talk/text/chat often considering that they don't see each other. For my case, I haven't got the chance to see my him because I was studying at that time. But I already met him personally way back when we're still kids. Then we got separated for my family went somewhere to find greener pasture. I guess sometimes, it's not enough that in the course of such relationship couple just communicate online or through phone/text because based on my experience, you really need to have that time to be together even once or twice a year. Trust me, temptations will come one day, and couples should be very careful if they want the relationship to last. My relationship ended because someone caught his eye while I was away. But it didn't make me bitter, it helped me grew strong and learn the value of trust.
@swissheart (6482)
• Romania
19 Jul 11
I think that the most important factor is mutual thrust. It's much harder to thrust your partner when he is milles away but you have to do it if you really want think to work out between the two of you. sure after you turn the computer off all kind of things might be going trough your mind : what would he be doing now? who is he with? but you have to chase tose questions away and thrust your partner.
@koperty3 (1876)
18 Jul 11
In long distance relationship trust is required as well as strong character. However in my opinion only 1% of such relationships got chance to survive. I was in such relationship and it didn't sustain. I was focused on work and how makes everything work and the other person was focused on someone else.