how to express your feelings?

@peace001 (727)
China
July 18, 2011 8:16pm CST
i'm confused that it seems that i can not express my feelings to the others i care about.acturally i 'm scared to have a closed relative with others,but i need someone who will cheer me up when i 'm upset.then what should i do?i'm so confued, and could you give me some advice,mylots?
5 responses
@celticeagle (117306)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Jul 11
My first question to you would have to be this: Do you know your own feelings? Do you understand what you are feeling? Why and when? If you truly understand your feelings you shouldn't have that much trouble expressing them. I would spend some time thinking about that.
@peace001 (727)
• China
20 Jul 11
hi,celticeagle.nice to meet you.yes ,i know it clearly and i am pretty sure that the person who i care about.but you know the people are realluy comflicative creatures,so am I.you can not get the thing you want to.how confused it is.thanks a lot.nice day!
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@celticeagle (117306)
• Boise, Idaho
20 Jul 11
You don't recall me huh? Did you start over? Been away awhile.
@didi13 (2927)
• Romania
27 Jul 11
Why is it difficult to recognize the feelings? Call them, give them life by word ... pronounced them, they declare the existence ... and yet, quite often hesitate to do ... admit in front of the other as you are not indifferent, but rather ... Why this fear? Where? Until when? I think such a state embarrassment comes from a somewhat confusing feelings of inhibitory strength ... It's like we reveal our human weakness for him next to us ... And it is not easy to do steps to meet each other, as can He wants to turn to you. It is not easy to look in the eyes of others a spark, an emotion that has to step on your intuitive brilliance, which foresee a glow that plays your eyes more expressive shade of blue, but can not as easily discernible because of excessive shyness. But you dare to do, we run the risk of feeling we have or do not share. The confessions, we become vulnerable, but equally stronger, I think you not only us, but at whom it is intended message ... how circumspect and sensitive to feelings so deep it is to perceive the same so our confession ... I confess ... I want to get to feel someday, "maybe today, maybe tomorrow, maybe like in any day" (life is a surprise, just wait to you is revealed in that moment meant to be no earlier or later ...) true love, sublime love ... I want to extreme mind to love, to love the body, soul to love. Breathe in and love, is also feeling the purest and most fiery, not dominate you with the alternation, but by conquest ... It's like a marathon race, you either go all the way or a surrender, but without to win any award out of recognition of moments lived with all your being and does not deserve to be disowned, no matter what you reserve for unpredictable, for they will always remain a part of you.
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
19 Jul 11
If you can't express yourself by talking to that person then try a different medium in which you can express yourself. Like a letter perhaps...or through e-mail or texting. But the key is to trust the person and be confident about yourself.
@Dymo75 (340)
• New Zealand
19 Jul 11
You need someone who will cheer you up? Well, coming to myLot was a first step don't you think? I'm in the sort of same spot as you, uncertain and have no idea how to express my feelings, either of affection or unhapppiness. What I usually do is ignore it. It doesn't help at all. I don't like what someone is doing to me? I ignore it. I see someone I like? I ignore it. It's just the way I confront my problems. Doubtless, it probably won't work. I think you should be upfront about it. Be honest in whaat you say. But first, know what you want to say. I hope it helps.
@IcedRock (21)
• China
19 Jul 11
i think the communication skill is not the very necessary,just like me, i have several intimate buddies, when i am upset, i can confide every thing and dont care how to express in what way..... this is the reality.