And I just melted...

@toniganzon (53319)
Philippines
July 19, 2011 8:43pm CST
Menstrual period has just ended and for sure what i'm feeling has nothing to do with pms. Lately i've been sensitive about love and i easily get touched or affected by romantic scenes in the movie or in the books. I even get so affected by my friend's story i felt like i was the person being told by those romantic lines. Yesterday a friend who made me depressed several months ago sent me a message via twitter and he told me that he's keeping his account even though he only has a few followers and doesn't have much to say because he only want to keep in touch with one person. That person inspired him to be good. I knew he was referring to me. At that time i was deeply affected by what he said and he added by saying that he was an ahole for treating that friend so bad but it was beyond his control. When he said that i just cried. Not because i felt depressed again but i was so touched with what he said i just melted. This kind of thing is common among women but i'm not sure if this happens to guys as well.
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@dpk262006 (56483)
• Delhi, India
21 Jul 11
Hi! It depends on the situation and particular friend. It is very normal to get carried away by the emotions and feel emotional by some touching comments and am no exception to that.
@toniganzon (53319)
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
Thanks for being so honest and admitting that sometimes you do melt as well and get touchy by certain situations. I take pleasure sometimes in being just so emotional. I don't know why i'm enjoying it. Maybe i'm just crazy!
@dpk262006 (56483)
• Delhi, India
22 Jul 11
I always trye to be candid and honest. There is nothing wrong in feeling emotional, after all we are human beings (we are not like animals, who just cannot express their emotions) and we have every right to express ourselves.
@jdex_143 (1094)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
Ohhhh.. I think that's nice to know that he wants to still get in touch with you. Yeah, I feel the same way as you. Lately, I get to be so touched with romantic movies too. I should say, most of the movies stored in my netbook now are romantic comedy movies. Way back in college, I prefer to watch action and animated movies but now, my preferences had changed. Am I getting matured? Hehehehe.. It kept me thinking like that. I don't know.. Perhaps, this is just part of getting matured emotionally. :) I am wondering, do the guys get touched with romantic movies as well? :)
@toniganzon (53319)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
I think guys do. One of my friends told me he almost cried in the movie City of Angels. He wasn't gay at all. And even music videos can get through them as well.
@jdex_143 (1094)
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
Hmmmm.. Really? I think that's what's a real man is. I'm impressed with him. :) He didn't hid his emotions. :)
@isloooboy (1740)
• United Arab Emirates
20 Jul 11
Well being social and emotional animal every human feel the same way but how they expressed their feeling is the real issue and essence of our life. I am still very touchy and that's why my mostly topics are full of emotional love based questions and learning from mylot friends regarding how to tackle my emotions. I think being melt so easily for me is an alarming caution, don't melt so easily and when its online things which oftentimes hurt more than giving happy moments.
@toniganzon (53319)
• Philippines
21 Jul 11
Hello friend, I don't melt easily. There is a depth to the friendship that i was talking about and i melted to the message when he told me that i inspired him to be good. If someone who is 20 years older than would tell me that, it would be something that is really precious and honorable for me.
• India
20 Jul 11
I have also undergone with this problem and i understand how you feel........
@toniganzon (53319)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
Oh! It's nice to know that someone understands how i feel. Have a nice day!
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
Hello toni, Because once the guys irrational behavior is gone or melted,that's when he will regret and become depress to. if he was a-hole to you then he must have deeply regret it by now and just wanted to li-low for the mean time. I never knew how a woman would feel if I mentioned my regret and my appreciation for them being friends to me but am just glad they're my friends.
@toniganzon (53319)
• Philippines
20 Jul 11
They would probably feel the same way i did. Yeah he's actually regretting it now.