I feel distressed
By Ram Bansal
@rambansal (574)
India
July 22, 2011 2:11am CST
A young female friend of mine has a very happy family. She pays high respect to me and I regard her as a sweet baby always. We had exchanges almost daily. I was to write an article on 'Happiness', for which I wished her family picture to be used on the article and asked for her permission. She immediately permitted me, but from the next moment, her profile is missing from my friend's list.
I fear she might have told about my use of the picture to her husband who might have not liked her interactions with me and rebuked her. At this she seems to have complete withdrawn from her online contacts.
This is greatly distressing me for many days.
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9 responses
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
hello sir,
Sorry to hear about this.
I will also feel the same if i am in your shoe.
Have you sent her message thru email and asked the reason for deleting her profile?
Maybe there is other reason for that deletion (hope so)
I hope you will be fine soon
have a great weekend ahead sir
have a great weekend ahead sir1 person likes this
@rambansal (574)
• India
22 Jul 11
Hello dear,
I have no way to contact her. So keep worried about her.
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Now i understand why you are so distress...@rambansal (574)
• India
23 Jul 11
No, my dear reallysuny, she is real, I believe. I don't distrust anybody without a solid evidence.
@rambansal (574)
• India
22 Jul 11
Yes edsss, that is my fear while I always treat her with an elderly affection. She is of my daughter's age. Any way, thanks for the concern. Life is like that.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
If you're going to let this distress you then it'll probably get worse eventually. It seems you can't really do something about it so just forget it and just move on.
@frontvisions101 (16043)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
If you're going to let this distress you then it'll probably get worse eventually. It seems you can't really do something about it so just forget it and just move on.
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
22 Jul 11
Had you tried to call her, or ask her why. Maybe what you did absolutely anger her husband who is a jealous type of person. I would definitely found a chance to talk to her and ask if you can explain the whole situation to her husband, there is absolutely nothing happen between you and her. You guys are simply friends, right?
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Don't feel distressed. Maybe she has other reasons, not what you are thinking.
Anyway, you can find some other pictures from other websites. Good luck.
@umabharti (3972)
• India
22 Jul 11
Unless u asked her about what had happened about her profile after you asked her family photo and known what actually happened i think you should not think something odd had happened.You should get it confirmed.
@cowboyofhell (3063)
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
Somehow that resemble a story I've read. It's about a student falling for her married teacher. She and her best friend did not attend at the class or were late when the teacher introduced himself as married so she never knew and her strong love for him kept her hoping that somehow they'd end up in a relationship. When the glass was full she was told he's married that's why she must stop. In her case she must accept that everything has ended and in your case it seems the same.
@bhabycatch013 (9150)
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
hi rambansal,
If she belongs to a conservative family I think the husband misunderstand the friendship you had to his wife, this is sad some of them are still not that open when it comes to cyber world.
Hope she will communicate with you soon if she get a chance.
happy mylotting
