i felt uncomfortable :(

Philippines
July 22, 2011 10:48am CST
hi mylotters, I just came from the meeting I don't know how can I start with this uuuhhmm.....there is a guy from my part time job he is nice, gentleman,good looking,well off in short can be a ideal one we used to hang out before after the meeting he always offer me a ride which is good for me hassle free I don't put colors on his gesture we've been like this for a year, Until he became a politician because of his busy schedules we rarely see each other which I understand. After many months we saw each other again but I heard that he got married but I ignored it's nothing to me when we had the chance to talked he confirmed it because he cannot deny the wedding ring on his finger. It's bit uncomfortable when he told me that if I just feel what he felt for me that was bit shocking it means he is already courting me , well we can't turn back time I know he is happy and I am too. I saw him tonight and I am uncomfortable the way he look and smile at me then he asked me if we can dine out one of this day I just smiled and told him his wife is waiting for him he just laugh and wink at me . There is no regrets at my side we are just not meant to be what important is he found his better half . happy mylotting everyone have a nice weekend ^_^
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7 responses
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
uhmnn. forget it, remember,you still have 4 years
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@shibham (16977)
• India
22 Jul 11
And shiby is here.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
ignore him...
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
hi jaiho, hahaha!it's no big deal I am just confused and uncomfortable with him which I don't felt before miss yah
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
22 Jul 11
Friend I know we cannot forget old memory but some time it is necessary to forget it. If he is not caring you then you should left him and go someone is waiting for you. Dont feel uncomfortable. Now I am missing you.
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
hello surekha, Hope you feel better now Nothing to worry there are no old memory for us No one is waiting happy mylotting
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 Jul 11
It means you want to convey to us that you are still very beautiful, attractive and smart even married men can ask for a date from you. Take is as a compliment. I ageee it was not fair on his part to ask for a date from you, when he is already married.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
25 Jul 11
I agree with your observations.
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
hi dpk, Nah, I don't find myself as a beautiful and attractive but smart enough to do what is right. Just wondering when he had the just he don't used it why now that it is impossible Or maybe because some men are boastful when they get another one even they are married thanks for the response happy mylotting
@shibham (16977)
• India
22 Jul 11
Grrr.....
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
hi shiby, how are you?
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@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
@ shiby
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
at amigo's reaction,lol! You're too slow amigo,nyahaha! What are you waiting for,lol!
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
22 Jul 11
Hi sweetie. I am only going to say this once. Stay far away from that one, okay. Not even friendship can work right now. No offense.
@saphrina (31552)
• South Africa
23 Jul 11
I'm sorry sweetie, but the word impossible have no meaning or substance. It doesn't mean anything at all.
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
it's fine Dear let's have some vodka
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
dear, trust me I rather stick with vodka I am not good on this so it is impossible
@mtrguanlao (5522)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Hi friend! When he's not yet married,why didn't he propose to you,why now? I hate guys who are boastfully saying that if only you would have had feelings too towards him..and so? In the first place,if he really wanted you,he would have done everything to win your heart. Stay away from him friend. He's not worth it,he's already married.
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
Just try to stay away from him friend,it's for your own good!
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
yes friend I will do that
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
hello mtr, That is what I am thinking also What is the point now? If friendship we've been friends Well we are not going to bump to each other again unless he is going to hunt me down see you soon.......... happy mylotting
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
you are uncomfortable because your feelings for him are still there. There's no problem going out with him but make sure that it was purely friends only.
• Philippines
22 Jul 11
hi simplyphen, There was no feelings at all I was shocked that he is courting me that time without my knowledge Well I am not that kind of person I know when to say NO thanks for the response happy mylotting