ladies, help!!!!

@wiguen (551)
United States
July 22, 2011 11:40pm CST
whats that really means when my girlfriend is always complaining about me always working, cause before i used to be around all day now i get home late and have to leave early in the morning.
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@toniganzon (53688)
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
I have seen a lot of cases women complaining their boyfriends don't have time for them, exclude me to that list because I have never ever complained about that. Shes just getting used to the set up of not seeing you as much as before. I hope that she will get used to it soon. And don't get mad, it only shows she misses you and loves you.
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@EdnaReyes (2628)
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
Ah, this is one thing that men can't understand about us women. We demand things that means another. She is just missing you. It is our way to let our men know our needs. She's demanding some of your time becuase she's missing you and has this fear that she might be losing you. Why not let her know she's always being loved? A simple hug and words of assurance will do but sometimes a little present or surprise gift can do the trick!
@jdex_143 (1094)
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
Hi, wiguen! :) I think, your girlfriend feels like you don't care about her anymore because you're not spending time with anymore like you used to. :) Maybe you should spend time with her starting today because she might find another man just because she felt rejected. You don't want to happen that don't you? Well, good luck with your relationship. I hope you could make her feel very loved by you. Most girls feel loved when her boyfriend really spends time with her more than anything. For a girl, time is the best expression of love. :)
• United States
24 Jul 11
After you find some time to spend with her remind her that ou have bills to pay as well. If she is willing to foot the bill let her know you may think about staying home with her. that is selfish thinking of a person who wants to be the center of the mans life when he has to work hard to earn.
• India
23 Jul 11
Hi Friend, I think you are lucky that your girlfriend miss you. Please share some quality time with her. She wants to be with you. If you have some work pressure then make her understand.
@vandana7 (69050)
• India
23 Jul 11
Is she not working? You do need to identify time for her, and let her know when you will be there for her. Please do not let your work encroach upon that time. I do understand your need to be concentrate on career at this stage of your life. But try to ensure there is adequate for your girlfriend as well.
@Graceekwenx (3163)
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
Hmm.. Welcome to Mylot! That is her way of saying she misses you.
• Philippines
23 Jul 11
That happened to me also when my husband is so busy with his work. I complained also although I understand how hard it is to manage our time. I guess you really should talk about it before it get worst. It's a matter of time management and everything will be okay soon. If she really love you, she'll understand and everything will be okay.
@stary1 (6622)
• United States
23 Jul 11
You should be happy she wants you around more. I understand we all have to work, but making time for her is important. On your days off do you give her the attention she needs? Does she work?? There are all kinds of ways to work things like this out so everyone is happy. Best wishes to you!!