how to express my love to my girl friend?

Bangladesh
July 24, 2011 10:47am CST
I am having relation with my girl friend for more than two years. I loved her a lot.But can not express to her how much I loved her.Even I angry suddenly on her.I do not control myself.She became hurt because of my behavior.I never behave bad to others but I do not know why I behaved bad to her? But she did not take those seriously, she loves me badly.What should I do? Actually I am a marine engineer and most of the time I lived away from. Please give me suggestion not to angry on her and let my show my love to her.
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10 responses
@kingparker (9673)
• United States
24 Jul 11
Write a card, and write down what you want to say in this card and send it to her along with a bouquet of flower to express your love. It is easier this way, because if you can express it fully or lovably through verbal communication. Or send her a love text message to express how much you love her. That should be help. And apologize for the anger you express to her suddenly.
• Bangladesh
25 Jul 11
I did it every time after my mistake and it works.But I want to control my angriness that what I can not control myself.Actually I do not want to misbehave with her.I do good behave with her few days and suddenly that bad behavior come that what I do not want to do
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@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
24 Jul 11
Get help, anger management. Maybe go to the doctors and let him know how you feel and what you do and he can get you some medication. My boyfriend and I were the same towards each other, we never ended it because of our love to each other was strong. So we went to the doctors and got on medication now we are great! Try it!
• Bangladesh
25 Jul 11
Great idea buddy.Thank you for sharing.But to whom I will go?Any specialist doctor or normal doctor?Its only my problem.So, I think that I myself should go to doctor.She is very lovely,she never angry on me.
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• United States
31 Jul 11
I would just go to your normal doctor and let him know how you are feeling and he will either treat you himself. Or he will guide you to another doctor who can specialize in your area that you need work on. Just make sure if your given medication that you actually take it.I can tell when my boyfriend forgets to take his medication because he is weird!
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
For me just as it is a good attitude just to be calm and not dominant to her because she only your girlfriend not wife so that she can love you showed more love in action and said.
• Bangladesh
25 Jul 11
She is going to be my wife very soon.She is my first and last love and thats why I am worried about my anger.I do not want to loose her and marry her to make a family.
• Malaysia
25 Jul 11
Dude Women are the most beautiful and heavenly creation of god. You must never ever hurt a girl, especially if she loves you. Nothing can match like the feeling to learn that there is someone out there who will back you come whatever may. So respect her and try not to lose your cool. As you are saying that you live away from her most of the time then you must realize the level of her dedication towards you. She loves you beyond the boundaries of distance. So she deserves the love from your core and not your anger. Trust me, anger is the worst enemy. And I am sure this anger doesn't deserves losing your girl. So keep your cool and love her because she deserver much of it from you. Good day.
• Bangladesh
25 Jul 11
I know dude and that what I am going to do.From now on words I will always keep her happy and will never angry and if I will angry though I will not show my angriness and she deserves my love.You know buddy when I am in abroad I always wait for her mail or message.I love her madly, but I can not express my love to her too much.
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
Always make her feel that she is important. Make her feel that even if you are far away, you're always there for her. Whenever you get angry, apologize after. Hug her. Make her feel special.
• Bangladesh
25 Jul 11
Yap, I try to fell her that she is special to me.She is very much important to me because she is my 1st love and she is going to my queen.
• Nigeria
25 Jul 11
You will try to make her happy by doing somethings that will help you.tell her you loves her often,tell her to feel your precence even if you are together.tell her shes the most important thing that could ever happen to you in this world,any time you are angry with keep silence by not saying anything that will hurt her instead...by doing that i think that will help you a litle.
• Bangladesh
25 Jul 11
Yap,when I am abroad I used to give her message her every 1 hour. If possible, I chat with her and call to her. What do I mean that I can not control my angriness. I do not know why I suddenly get angry on her?
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
control your anger.. do your best not to hurt her again. Read books on how about anger management. Be more passionate. Love her truly.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
Give her some surprises. Treat her to her favorite dining and buy her a gift ,a special one and give it to her after having some dinner. or,simply talk with her and tell her how much you loved her and that you are thankful that she always understands you.
• Bangladesh
25 Jul 11
That what you told I usually do.But I can not control my angriness. From today, I determined that I will never angry on her.I will try my best to keep her happy
• India
24 Jul 11
I think you take her love for granted. That is why when you get angry you hurt her. If for once you start thinking that relationship is emotional bank account where good behavior, care. concern, courtesy are a deposit and bad behavior, anger, ego trips are withdrawls, and relationship would be lasting if both have got a positive deposits in relationship sufficient to take care of occassional withdrawl. If you have azero balance and yet try to withdraw, then you willmeet the same fate (metaphorically), as that of a person whose cheque has bounced.
@Jamie911 (104)
• Philippines
24 Jul 11
just always think what will happen if she'll leave you i have the same problem i get easily irritated with my girlfriend if she do some mistakes, maybe i just want her to be the best, but i always end up hurting her, just remember that you love her. and you want to make her happy. coz if that continue you will feel embarrassed to show that you really care even if you want to be lovey dovey, you'll feel awkward.