Talks of your bee-hind =-(

July 24, 2011 9:01pm CST
What do you do if you FEEL that your friends are talking behind your back? Should you confront them and ask? Or you just let them be?
2 responses
@dilrajj57 (1759)
• Pakistan
18 Jan 12
feel about the friends who talking behind back, cannot be a good friend, the friends is that who appraise behind you.
• Malaysia
19 Jan 12
Yes dilrajj57, I totally agree with you on that one. Thank you.
@cathloe (184)
• Philippines
25 Jul 11
i really feel upset if people talk behind my back. everybody can't avoid to do that for certain reasons. i admit that i also talk behind others' backs but i never talked behind my bestfriends and close friends. it's like when you talk behind your friend's back, you're being plastic and not true to them. if you've encountered being talked behind your back, it's best to approach that friend of yours in a warm and kind manner. you don't need to bombard and accuse them all of the sudden. verify first, show the evidences, what exactly are the rumors that you've heard and hurt you - in this way you'll maintain your friendship with him/her. if she still continues in doing so and does not even give you attention about what you are feeling, then he/she is not a true friend of yours. you're a great person even with or without her =)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 11
Thank you so much... but to confront them will only make the matter worse. Maybe should just let them be and like you said, will be better off without friends like this..