Talks of your bee-hind =-(

feel about the friends who talking behind back, cannot be a good friend, the friends is that who appraise behind you.

i really feel upset if people talk behind my back. everybody can't avoid to do that for certain reasons. i admit that i also talk behind others' backs but i never talked behind my bestfriends and close friends. it's like when you talk behind your friend's back, you're being plastic and not true to them. if you've encountered being talked behind your back, it's best to approach that friend of yours in a warm and kind manner. you don't need to bombard and accuse them all of the sudden. verify first, show the evidences, what exactly are the rumors that you've heard and hurt you - in this way you'll maintain your friendship with him/her. if she still continues in doing so and does not even give you attention about what you are feeling, then he/she is not a true friend of yours. you're a great person even with or without her =)