Does she loves me??

@sajujohn (1009)
India
July 26, 2011 5:47am CST
I too love a cute girl in my college itself and i have proposed her some 3 months ago (before that I havn't talked even a sentence to her). But she hasn't replied me about that. Also since 1 month we started chatting in Facebook. But even now she hasn't replied anything about my proposal. I damn love her and don't wanna to loose her too. Does she really loves me ????
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8 responses
@jdex_143 (1094)
• Philippines
27 Jul 11
Hi, there! I think, the reason why she doesn't give you any reply is that she don't want to hurt your feelings.. Honestly, she might don't feel the same way as you do. She just can't tell to your face that she don't want to have a relationship with you. Hehehehe.. Well, that's just my opinion. Anyway, there are other girls out there. Perhaps, what you felt is just infatuation and not love at all. Try to court others. Maybe you'll be able to forget her. :)
@sajujohn (1009)
• India
27 Jul 11
Never I can....
@kingparker (9698)
• United States
5 Aug 11
If she hasn't reply to you ever since, there is no hope for it. If you want to wait for her response, that might just waste your time. So, I suggested you just move on, and find another girl that you might be able to fall in love with. Don't waste time on doing something that is not will be yours.
@Mc_mandy (32)
• India
4 Aug 11
Dude i understand that she has not replied to you regarding you matter but think of it like this she has not rejected your proposal and is showing interest in you by talking to you on Facebook that shows that she does like you she just wants to get to now you better before jumping into a relationship with you. Piece of advise spend as much time as you can with her be caring and sweet all the time and just be yourself don`t pretend to be cool or anything be yourself girls can tell when you are being fake.
@adhyz82 (36289)
• Indonesia
27 Jul 11
i think you had a right to tell your wish but you must respect too her wish..maybe she still want alone and no one bother her... don`t push her like that...more you push, more she flew away from you....
• Malaysia
27 Jul 11
Dear pal Take one thing at one time. If you really love her then be calm, you will never lose her. Do your best. Give her time. If she is not replying to your proposal and chatting with you, It may be that she is actually trying to know you. Be honest to her and yourself. Don't fill her inbox with nonsense and desperate messages. Just right to her quality mails. Be polite and brief to her. Give her some time and then whatever will be the result , that will be good for both of you.
@ellebj (784)
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
maybe she does, but what are common to girls is to test the feelings of the person courting.. Personally, i don't like that when a guy ask me to became his girl, i don't answer him right away.. i first test his love.. i remember my boyfriend when he confessed that he loves me and he is taking the risk of our friendship and be his lover.. I was kinda shock but happy because i am feeling the same way. And then, i make a pity-like, ridiculed face and he cried.. and after that, he said that he will wait, and so he does.. we still continued our friendship until such time that i am ready for a relationship. I am telling you this for you to calm down and be patient for this girl.. You may ask him from time to time but the good way is to know each other better.. having a relationship is difficult. it is not just about love, it is also about trust, understanding and being compatible such that your ideas may not clash.. and you are able to seek comfort from each other despite of the differences you have.
@pbbbsra (1214)
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
If you love her, you will have to wait. And the fact that she didnt dumped you or turned you down when you proposed, that means that she's giving you a chance to court her. What have you dont to court her? Facebook chats wont be enough for courting and you have to make her feel you're serious. MAybe you should have to ask again...
@nurseclare (2210)
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
Proposal of marriage?haha! You mean courtship?Your words seems that you really love her and you don't wanna loose her as if you guys are in a relationship. Maybe she doesn't like you or she's confused what to say why not ask her while you chat on facebook. She maybe thinking you're just fooling around. Prove to the girl how much you love her not by the words but show it. By giving her present or ask a date. :)