late maturity?

@Jamie911 (104)
Philippines
July 26, 2011 9:49am CST
this is one of my problems i really think i am immature compared to my age, i'm living alone for studies and i don't think i can be independent, i don't even take my studies seriously and just have some fun and do what i want even though it really is time for me to think about my future, i'm a bit childish some advice? how about you?
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7 responses
• South Korea
26 Jul 11
your the one who said that... well I think its fine as long as your not affecting anybody due to being childish.. experience is the best teacher.. dont rush yourself give it a time.. and sometimes being different could be special.. (just dont be too different lol) other people may be scared... lol
@Jamie911 (104)
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
well even though i know it i don't think i'll survive alone i'm trying my best now. i don't think i'm scary but maybe i'm special haha
• South Korea
26 Jul 11
well thats the spirit:) and you cannot force everybody to like you.. few friends will do as long as they are true.. and of course Im sure your family loves just the way you are
@Jamie911 (104)
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
i hope so, hehe bt i think all i'm giving my parents are problems. i'm useless thats why i'm doing my best thank you for the advice it helps hehe
@resutaa (144)
• Philippines
27 Jul 11
I don't think its immaturity since youve known that your acting like a child hence you know what your doing, your living in your own just come to think of it, It, knowing your problems, finding solutions,studying and working and not bothering anybodies life. Its just your way to be happy.
@celticeagle (159474)
• Boise, Idaho
26 Jul 11
I think now is the time to discipline and make yourself do what needs to be done. Setting goals would probably help you and make sound decisions around those goals. Set down and make a list of things you need to accomplish and then set some goals so you can do those things. That is usually best.
• Philippines
26 Jul 11
Well, they say there are some people who mature late but that's normal. The ones that has abnormal cases are those who still drink through a baby's bottle.
@kavya06 (372)
• India
26 Jul 11
That's not a strange think,many of the people now day are like this.first you have to minkle with some other for that you have to share your room with your friend or friends,and you have to concentrate some to your lessons.think your self as mature man,by all this you can change yourself try it today itself,friend..have a nice and bright future..!
• Philippines
27 Jul 11
Well, admiting your immaturity can be a good start for you. Since you have identified your problem regarding yout maturity, it is high time that you do something about it. Start by accepting responsibilities and exposing yourself to different situations. These will help you gain experience which can be used to trigger your maturity. Take every opportunity to learn and also don't hesitate to try. Failures can occur but trying and daring to fail is a different thing compared to failure.
26 Jul 11
Use what you have to your advantage, be spontaneous and adventurous, set yourself some goals for life, work and where you want to be and try and work to them, even mix it up a bit and try and work out different ways about doing them or how to do them and have fun at the same time. There is too much emphasis on being "mature" doing "9 to 5" job, get a mortgage and retire mentality. Really depends what you mean by mature though, if you mean someone taking your seat and bursting into tears before beating them with a lunch tray (sorry for the school yard example) then I think your already heading in the right direction by looking on how to change :)