How much you are hurt when your closed one's are hurt???? / myLot

@sjvg1976 (41131)

Delhi, India

July 29, 2011 7:51am CST

Hello MYLOTTERS, Today i am upset due to my grand mother who has just came in here to live with us before that she was living in village with my Uncle. She always had her choice to live in village as she never liked city life. She had already been here for so many times but never stayed with us for more than 10 days as far as i remember. And this time it was a compulsion that she is forced to stay with us becuase she is now suffering with "HERPES" all over her body

.She came here just 3 days back my Mom took her to a good skin specialist here and had her full check up.Doctor has given her the medicines for a week and told that she will recover soon provided she takes her medicines properly. But today as she is 80+ years old she also lost her mental balance also she was just fearing with the shadows of ours.She was saying that someone is standing behind the door and asking for food but when saw no body was there. Whole night she did not sleep and today morning she was just crying as what is happening to her. We all were also crying

to see her situation but are in suprise how this happened to her in just one night.We have fixed the appointment with the psychiatrist to get her checked up and waiting for waht he says i feel it is due to the medicines she is taking for "HERPES". May be the side effect??? But still i am so much worried about her as so many people who came at our house to meet her said she now has very less time left so its better to take care of her if you can. Hope she will get fine soon.

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dabangladehi

@dabangladehi (660)

• Bangladesh

29 Jul 11

Do not worry,she will be fine buddy.Try to give her some time.Take her to some places in city which are similar to village likes botanical garden.Most important thing is that do not let feel that she is lonely and always talk with her. Hope everything will be ok.

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@sjvg1976 (41131)

• Delhi, India

29 Jul 11

Hello Dabang,

Welcome to MYLOT.

I also feel it so we are not leaving her alone so that she may not feel upset. I know when she gets alone her imagination gets started and she gets feared.

Sanjeev

@sjvg1976 (41131)

• Delhi, India

29 Jul 11

Thanks dabang.

dabangladehi

@dabangladehi (660)

• Bangladesh

29 Jul 11

Thank you buddy for welcomig me.I am enjoying in mylot.I am happy that I got people like you who are very sharing and helpful. Do not worry buddy,everything will be fine. God bless her and your family and hope soon you will see smile on her face, Wish you and your grandmom have a nice day ahead.

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vivamir

@vivamir (671)

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29 Jul 11

Hi sjvg1976.. Firstly I would like to wish your Grand mother a speedy recovery..and I do hope she gets well soon.. Its frustrating to observe someone you love in so much pain/discomfort.. You are doing the best for her, supporting her etc..I mean thats vital element to patient recovery- she is real lucky to have such a loving and caring family.. I will keep a thought for you and your family in hope that everything works out for you..All the best my friend (",)

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Sanjeev

@sjvg1976 (41131)

• Delhi, India

29 Jul 11

Hello Vivamir, Thanks for you wishes friend.

Yes its always painful when you see someone you love is in pain

. From last 1 day we all are depressed and hoping & praying for her that she gets well soon.

Sanjeev

@sjvg1976 (41131)

• Delhi, India

5 Oct 11

Oh friend now she is better may be GOD listened to our prayers.

vivamir

@vivamir (671)

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29 Jul 11

I do hope so, keep your faith my friend and Im sure she will feel your strength through your prayers.. keep us posted wont you on her recovery?..xx (",)

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KrauseHome

@KrauseHome (36448)

• United States

31 Jul 11

Personally there could be a lot of reasons for everything that is going on. It could be from the medication, it could be from being in a home maybe she does not feel the most comfortable in, it could be because of age. Personally I would be finding ways to make her feel more comfortable to like somewhere she is familiar with and offer help and guidance as you can. Wishing you the Best in getting her the help she might be needing now.

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Sanjeev

@sjvg1976 (41131)

• Delhi, India

5 Oct 11

Hello tina, I also think it was due to medication but now she is ok and improving fast and hope in few days she will be OK.

silverfox09

@silverfox09 (4708)

• United States

25 Oct 12

Sound so awful , I would also be crying if I was in that situation . I have seen my brother drop after I tell him not to and I couldn't stop crying because he was bleeding and we were only children. Even when I am grown and I see my family members arguing , I sometimes start to cry .

Jane

@jaiho2009 (39142)

• Philippines

29 Jul 11

hello sjvg, Sorry to hear about your grandma. Now i miss my grandma...(she passed away 3 years ago) Yes,it really hurt us to see our loved ones feeling pain and in such condition. I hope you will be fine,and I am sure your relatives will understand her situation as well. Enjoy the rest of the day she is with you...we never knew what tomorrow may brings. have a great weekend