E X P E R I E N C E - c o u n t s.....

@busybee10 (3191)
India
August 3, 2011 12:30pm CST
[b]Life is filled with experiences - as time goes by - and ONE learns and also makes oneself alert with the gained experiences. But, these days people underestimate the opposite person thinking he does not know any thing and make him low in their vision,and try to boast themselves with all rubbish. If you come across some one with these thoughts what are your reactions...??[/b] Share your thoughts please.........
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@umabharti (3976)
• India
3 Aug 11
i think no one likes listening to others,because the ego tells so.The experience definetly counts but its not the same for everyone. When we tell to elders they just say we already know it,so what for they wait without taking a decision on a problem. When we tell to youngsters they say already we know we do not need suggestions.No one listens,everyone knows their situations and they know how to takle those. Because god gave that brain and thinking power to each and everyone.so only they say its rubbis when others suggest. Unless someone comes and asks its is better not to tell our history,maybe this is good to avoid disrespect from others.
@busybee10 (3191)
• India
5 Aug 11
[b]Hi umabharti, you have very nicely expressed - and what you say I totally agree with you. Yes, there is a saying that until and unless some asks we should not reveal or suggest any thing,this is what I learn't from my DAD and am still following. It is a better way I feel....[/b]
@umabharti (3976)
• India
5 Aug 11
Yes unless until some one needs a suggestion shoul dnot give the valuable suggestions,because it loses it worth and value. The importance of guidance come only when a person really requires it.If we just with no use suggest or guuide that can become some other way in understanding the situation or the problem or any issue. Good tha t you following ur elders and hope u enjoy ur life.
@busybee10 (3191)
• India
7 Aug 11
[b]What you say is true and it is also advisable to hear some of the elderly suggestions because they spell out with experience only. But, these days youngsters feel egoistic and keep aside the elderly suggestions and they fall into the pit - and on several falls they get enlightened of their defects...any how life is all practical and should be learn t...[/b]
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
4 Aug 11
I would lower myself in front of them but I would know that I cannot respect the person and that unknowingly to the person I would not take her/him into any consideration... just saying that she/he is like a nobody to me... though I would still lower myself in front of her/him.
@busybee10 (3191)
• India
13 Aug 11
[b]I appreciate your thoughts of respecting them... I am sure that this type of nature is only with people who are principled in their life and always have a positive look in their life....[/b]
@jennyze (7048)
• Indonesia
15 Aug 11
I am not sure that I am a positive person, but yeah some of my thoughts are positive thought you should know that mostly there are negative thoughts...
@busybee10 (3191)
• India
17 Aug 11
[b]Our positiveness is measured by the people around us. Because we do not know what we are - this is only upto some extent. We feel we are great and positive - but again it all depends upon the situations and results...for some it may be positive and for others it may not be OK. Our conscious is the best one to judge...if we are totally satisfied then we may boldly call it (+ve)[/b] Have a great friend....!!
• France
4 Aug 11
Hu busybee, You have started a pretty interesting discussion in the office, people think they are really smart enough and try to outclass them in each frame of their life. At times, it might work, however if they come across somebody who is clever than them (like me) will learn a lesson and fall down to the earth from the heaven. It is good to exhibit all your knowledge and learn few things from the others, but do not try to overact and try to be the hero of the scene. If they think they are pretty confident of what they are speaking it is really good, but do not provide false information to the people who are listening, some body who is really good might attack you and would fall into the pit. Be humble to all the people around you and do not act as if you are the boss of the world and nothing can be done without you!. Busybee, I have used "you" at times in my discussion, it is absolutely not pointing at you, kindly apologize if it hurt your ego. My intention is only directed at the topic. Cheers Lotters!
@busybee10 (3191)
• India
13 Aug 11
[b]Dear santoshkumarssk,no problem by HIS grace I have gained the sense of the situations and can balance any thing.And,I am a slow reader which makes me understand so nothing to worry at all. I thank you for being so transparent in expressing your bubbling thoughts which has added some more knowledge...in me. Being right makes us bright ...isn't it...[/b]
@toniganzon (51692)
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
I consider them full of experience but lack wisdom and wonder why he hasn't learned to be humble after all those years of experience. It's very pitiful. I pity those people as they lack wisdom that are expected of them.
@busybee10 (3191)
• India
13 Aug 11
[b]Wisdom can be gained only if one has patience and interest. It is not easy to gain that. One has to struggle hard ...of -course.... Yes,this is a different section of people...life is wonderful isn't it...??? What ever is life..let us lead our own path to be at ease.[/b]
• China
4 Aug 11
I will tell him or her directly that it takes bitter medicine to cure a desease properly, and it takes blunt advice to put us on the right track.
@busybee10 (3191)
• India
13 Aug 11
Good formula --
• Philippines
4 Aug 11
Well, in my opinion, those person who are boastful and always talk about their accomplishments and themselves are insecure people. They tend to boast so as to assure themselves that they are better than others. For a mature person, this is folly. Real intelligent people don't boast what they have done and much more don't boast about themselves. They just do what is needed to be done. Strategy tells you that the more information you divulge the more you put yourself in a disadvantage. That's why intelligent people often are not boastful. Just let them do the talking but make sure you do the action and always surprise them with what you can do.
@busybee10 (3191)
• India
13 Aug 11
[b]What you have described is right,these people are always one sided and feel great. And, only mature people can track their funny thoughts some tell on face and some keep it in their heart . Real people are always real because their heart block the unwanted things to share,which makes them the REAL PEOPLE.[/b]
@maximax8 (28490)
• United Kingdom
3 Aug 11
I have heard some people have been to the university of life and this teaches a lot. I know some people that had the experience of a trade and they do excellently and they don't have any educational passes. I know that traveling overseas, seeing sights and meeting local people can teach a person about the world and its people. I like to see the native wildlife and learn about them all. Experience baby sitting can help a lady later on when she becomes a mom and has her own children. Learner drivers need to get as much experience as possible before going to that practical driving test.
@busybee10 (3191)
• India
13 Aug 11
[b]You have well described ... I like that. Having a constant touch with people and places really makes one to come across several new things which get accumulated as practical experiences that will be useful in future life. Visiting new places really makes one strong to face boldly the odds,and one should take it as a challenge to gain experiences..[/b]
@himzey (1321)
• India
3 Aug 11
Hi busybee ! The same incident happened with me yesterday. My college's lab attendant asked me about wireless transmission and live telecasting, and I shared my crude viewpoints consisting of rough ideas about how it can be done. After I finished, the attendant responded as if what I spoke of was totally rubbish, and nothing of it made sense. He even raised the most stupidest doubts you ever imagine to hear from a person of his age. He remarked me that I know nothing of my field and started elaborating his thoughts on the topic. If that was not enough to make me go ROTFLMAO, he repeated the exact probable procedures I suggested, with some hi-fi technical terms to showoff his not so sound knowledge. And I gladly accepted "yes sir, I am sorry... it was me who was at fault..!" :p As soon as he left, all my classmates burst out of laughter, and advised me never ever answer any question in his practical classes. Man !... Now I have to deal with this attendant my whole semester. From this encounter I did understand one thing for sure. [b]"Do not fight with pigs,.. one reason being that you get dirty.... and the second and the worst one being that..... the pig likes it.. ".[b]
@busybee10 (3191)
• India
13 Aug 11
[b]Yes himzey,that is right..I agree with you. Be careful dealing with people and also suggesting one.Because, these days no one invites suggestions and if done without a request you are in the trap.So always be alert dealing with people of commenting.[/b]
@jaiho2009 (39019)
• Philippines
3 Aug 11
It is the pride/ego that give other person the kind of feeling and thinking. There are many of them who think they don't need other people's advice because they are better than any other. Some people are too proud of themselves and never admit their mistakes either but keep on believing their self to justify their mistakes. have a good day jaiho®
@busybee10 (3191)
• India
7 Aug 11
Yes jaiho, what you have told is true and because of their egoistic nature they conclude with lot of mistakes - but the bad thing is they do not even learn from the mistakes occurred - and this needs lot of concentration which they do not have because of their egoistic nature...