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i think no one likes listening to others,because the ego tells so.The experience definetly counts but its not the same for everyone. When we tell to elders they just say we already know it,so what for they wait without taking a decision on a problem. When we tell to youngsters they say already we know we do not need suggestions.No one listens,everyone knows their situations and they know how to takle those. Because god gave that brain and thinking power to each and everyone.so only they say its rubbis when others suggest. Unless someone comes and asks its is better not to tell our history,maybe this is good to avoid disrespect from others.

I would lower myself in front of them but I would know that I cannot respect the person and that unknowingly to the person I would not take her/him into any consideration... just saying that she/he is like a nobody to me... though I would still lower myself in front of her/him.

I consider them full of experience but lack wisdom and wonder why he hasn't learned to be humble after all those years of experience. It's very pitiful. I pity those people as they lack wisdom that are expected of them.

Well, in my opinion, those person who are boastful and always talk about their accomplishments and themselves are insecure people. They tend to boast so as to assure themselves that they are better than others. For a mature person, this is folly. Real intelligent people don't boast what they have done and much more don't boast about themselves. They just do what is needed to be done. Strategy tells you that the more information you divulge the more you put yourself in a disadvantage. That's why intelligent people often are not boastful. Just let them do the talking but make sure you do the action and always surprise them with what you can do.

Hu busybee, You have started a pretty interesting discussion in the office, people think they are really smart enough and try to outclass them in each frame of their life. At times, it might work, however if they come across somebody who is clever than them (like me) will learn a lesson and fall down to the earth from the heaven. It is good to exhibit all your knowledge and learn few things from the others, but do not try to overact and try to be the hero of the scene. If they think they are pretty confident of what they are speaking it is really good, but do not provide false information to the people who are listening, some body who is really good might attack you and would fall into the pit. Be humble to all the people around you and do not act as if you are the boss of the world and nothing can be done without you!. Busybee, I have used "you" at times in my discussion, it is absolutely not pointing at you, kindly apologize if it hurt your ego. My intention is only directed at the topic. Cheers Lotters!

I will tell him or her directly that it takes bitter medicine to cure a desease properly, and it takes blunt advice to put us on the right track.

I have heard some people have been to the university of life and this teaches a lot. I know some people that had the experience of a trade and they do excellently and they don't have any educational passes. I know that traveling overseas, seeing sights and meeting local people can teach a person about the world and its people. I like to see the native wildlife and learn about them all. Experience baby sitting can help a lady later on when she becomes a mom and has her own children. Learner drivers need to get as much experience as possible before going to that practical driving test.

Hi busybee ! The same incident happened with me yesterday. My college's lab attendant asked me about wireless transmission and live telecasting, and I shared my crude viewpoints consisting of rough ideas about how it can be done. After I finished, the attendant responded as if what I spoke of was totally rubbish, and nothing of it made sense. He even raised the most stupidest doubts you ever imagine to hear from a person of his age. He remarked me that I know nothing of my field and started elaborating his thoughts on the topic. If that was not enough to make me go ROTFLMAO, he repeated the exact probable procedures I suggested, with some hi-fi technical terms to showoff his not so sound knowledge. And I gladly accepted "yes sir, I am sorry... it was me who was at fault..!" :p As soon as he left, all my classmates burst out of laughter, and advised me never ever answer any question in his practical classes. Man !... Now I have to deal with this attendant my whole semester. From this encounter I did understand one thing for sure. [b]"Do not fight with pigs,.. one reason being that you get dirty.... and the second and the worst one being that..... the pig likes it.. ".[b]

It is the pride/ego that give other person the kind of feeling and thinking. There are many of them who think they don't need other people's advice because they are better than any other. Some people are too proud of themselves and never admit their mistakes either but keep on believing their self to justify their mistakes. have a good day jaiho®