What would you do?

I think i will tell to my friend that i started to talk to her boyfriend so i will just let her know that we chat on each other and it is important for her to know it because she is my friend and she is the girlfriend. If there is no malice in what we talk of her boyfriend it is very easy for me to tell it on her. I will also what is the topic that we talk about.

Well, I think that it would be okay as long as you were talking to him as if you were friends and nothing more than that. If you started to behave inappropriately towards him then this would be very wrong and certainly not fair on your friend who had trusted you to be around the one she loves. I was once in a horrible situation where my best friend's boyfriend liked me and wanted to be with me instead of her, and in the end I had to tell her and they broke up. It was getting to the point where I felt simply too awkward meeting up with them both without her knowing what he had been saying to me behind her back.

You didn't say anything completly,so i don't think i could get exactly what you are saying.Maybe this will help.I have my best friend and i definitely will tell her first if i have a boyfriend.

Would you please define more in details what you are intending on with talking to your friends boyfriend with out her knowing. I think as long as you are only talking about the general things in a mundane life you can talk to anyone. I mean you you can discuss hobbies and interests to share opinion. talk about the daily news or the weather. But are you saying something about your friend to her boyfiend I would watch my mouth carefully, unless you are planning a dear loving surprise with good genuine intentions for her.

I always have found my friends' boyfriends to be kind of dull or sort of rude, and not classy enough for me! So I can't say there has been ever any tiny chance of me having an interest in a friend's boyfriend. I have never seen any of them without the girl there, either. I think a generally good idea is to keep away from your friend's boyfriends, it just causes drama. If you are actually interested in a friend's boyfriend and he seems interested in you, it might be a good thing to wonder if he's just not faithful to be anyone's boyfriend. Really, I think it is best for people to just be patient and find their own man, one who knows who his woman is and the one he wants, one you don't have to fight over.