But how do you see that?
@dayangsumbi2010 (1724)
Indonesia
August 5, 2011 10:00pm CST
So I'd like to hear opinions about the following things:
I make a short version: I was with my boyfriend two years, he has done many things that bothered me and when I told him that it was not interested in him, he has thought only of himself. He has hurt me many times and given me the feeling that I am of course for him. I've made ??statements to him and my opinion of him and everything that has burdened me said. He has then meant I had him broke his heart. After that was silence. After 3 weeks we have met again and are at a concert. But during the three weeks I've made ??myself two times with a buddy and we have rrrr...., nothing more. My ex knows it. Well after the concert and I realized my ex but I still love very much. I depended on him so much and I have such strong feelings for him, I became aware of it only. At a celebration I've apologized for everything and that meant I still love him. He has only said that his feelings have changed nothing more. We have met several times and he was very close to me, was so tender to me that was not amicable. I have had hopes that we get back together. Yesterday I talked to him and he meant he wants to be friends with me. And he was so affectionate to me he has only done because he thought I could use that. He knows that I have severe depression, he said that he need not try to cheer me because they always bring nothing. To our relationship, he has not even fought. So I see the compassion he had, given me hope and then they destroyed me and ripped my heart broken. And he showed me it's not worth being fought for me.
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@dyeni23 (128)
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18 Aug 11
A relationship should consist of two people to make it work. Two people who would protect that relationship no matter what and would cherish it always as well. If you feel that it's not happening, what you did by consulting and having a talk about it with him is right. But as what you've said, he doesn't mind? He ignores it. That just like saying he ignores you and the relationship too. Guard your heart above all else. Love yourself and putting a distance from him would be quite useful.
@nakula2009 (2325)
• Indonesia
8 Aug 11
Forget Him! 2 years have clearly been a long time.
The best moment you break off contact with him, one probably. It can have many reasons ..
Cheer up ... You can do it!
much success
@rifnee (1713)
• Indonesia
6 Aug 11
Blows him off the friends list, break off contact. It looks as if he would see in you a kind of toy and should not be.
Draw a line and dissolve yourself completely from it. This is better for you and certainly less painful.
A similar situation also, and I had not until I've broken off contact completely, I was able to revive again. Maybe that would be right for you!
@Rosa26 (2618)
• United States
6 Aug 11
Well sometimes is difficult to understand the men, sometimes they say they love you, but their actions meants they not, sometimes they say they don't want to be with you anymore but keep calling you, following, asking about you,so if difficult butif he is showing with his actions and wirds that he doesn't loves you anymore, try to continue your life without him, when you were borned you borned alone so you don't need to him to live.
