Love is a tricky emotion?

August 6, 2011 9:49am CST
As they said love is a tricky emotion.There are some things that feel like love but they are much too superficial to be the real thing.Real love takes time and doesn't happen over night.So when someone try to tell me that they love me I doubt it,they don't know me that well yet and they already can say that? ... So my fellow mylotters how can you tell if it's love or just something like love but actually not?
4 responses
31 Aug 11
For me its not really a risk when you love somebody! Its nice to be in love with in the right person. Yes exactly there were people also that are so spontaneous when talking about love. As what you have state that real love takes time. For me it is because you can't just love a person just in a minute you know him or her. Maybe you just like her/him but not love him/her to the extent, right flowerfest?
@toniganzon (72285)
• Philippines
8 Aug 11
It takes more than words for me to believe when one is truly in love with me. A lot of men have told me those words but i don't see any sincerity in them. I think they have their own definition of that phrase than me. It's so sad that such lovely words are being abused by many. I can only tell the sincerity in those through time and the effort i see in the man through his actions. But sometimes they can really be deceiving too.
@Camylo57 (86)
• India
6 Aug 11
Love has different dimensions. You cannot compare Love. For example, the love for your Parents, brothers & sisters,spouse, children, relatives or friends etc. cannot compared to one another. The love with your wife will be real, but with your friend,it can be superficial. I fully agree with you that with anyone, love cannot happen overnight. Love takes time to grow.
@wiguen (551)
• United States
7 Aug 11
love is a very confusing emotion, indeed love is all about being insecure about being loved and give love, that insecure sensations drive the senses to create specific feelings that drive any one in a kind of search for emotional security beside someone called ,,lover,,. for that fact no one can tell so briefly that they in love with another, love do takes time, it requires understanding, faith or trust and stable emotions. for me it takes time to describe if yes or no i love someone its also take time to accept the fact that someone love me. take time to know your partner is the best thing to do to avoid failure.