argument with a partner

@mensab (4200)
Philippines
August 7, 2011 3:10am CST
i had an intense argument and heated exchanges with my partner. the argument is centered on what is very important to us - family. how do you cope with this kind of argument? it is putting our relationship in the eye of a storm. please help and advise.. thanks..
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6 responses
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
7 Aug 11
Argument in a relationship cannot be avoided. Both should listen to each other and never let the anger be overflowing when there is an argument going one,or else no one will understand each point. When argument becomes too hot to handle,better to drop the idea ..surely no one understand what is going on and no one will give up or admit it's mistake. Let yourself cool down and talk about the matter with cool and relax mind. have a good day jaiho®
@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
7 Aug 11
thanks jaiho for this advice. it is diffficult to stop oneself when engaged in an argument. i think it is a good reminder that i have to when things gets hot and heated. well, for now, things have cooled down. i hope we can talk about them again in a cool and level-headed manner.
• China
28 Aug 11
i hope you can solve this problems in peace, plz do not argument, will broken your relationship.
• South Korea
7 Aug 11
Communication is always be the key...and dont forgot to listen... and of course forgive.. arguments are normal for those whose in relationship and if it is handled well it will make you guys stronger... Be sure to listen to his/her side.. always put a solution on it..so next time you guys could avoid the same problem.. Hope everything is going to be better soon...:)
@nurseclare (2209)
• Philippines
8 Aug 11
It's okay mensab, i'm sure you'll fix that soon. if you partner is on fire please be the water and be calm. :) Every relationship come to a point when you can't understand your partner. All you have to do is cry on the corner. Just be faithful and everything will be fine.Stay strong mensab..
@jdex_143 (1093)
• Philippines
9 Aug 11
Hi, there! :) You really have a problem there. If you don't mind, what have you argued upon regarding your family? :) Invite him to sit down and talk to him... I know you can resolve it. Good luck with it. :)
@koperty3 (1876)
7 Aug 11
I have two or three argument with my partner per year. Afterwards we have few silent days and later everything is back to normal. We starting talking and explaining everything is very polite way. I know that talking is the key. But when I feel so angry I can't talk to him because I always worry that it will be worst. Few silent days is a time when we can think how to fix problem. Good luck!