I love my mom very much

Malaysia
August 12, 2011 2:21pm CST
But she kinda not interested. Maybe it is caused by my dad infedilities. She believes I resembles him and play with people's feelings. She makes my life sad and happy everytime. I don't want to have emotional updown mood caused by her. I am now already depressed for 10 years plus I don't have any boyfriend and friends. I am fail in my career because of unsupportive mom. She really help me a lot if she was optimistic about myself.
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• Greece
12 Aug 11
Oh god a sad story but you are not the only one.I dont know anything about you so it's a little bit hard to give any advice but i guess you are young and like every young person those kinds pf problems in the family really hurt the child.Your mother's loves you that for sure dont have doubts about.She is a person too she have her problems and feeling.You can give her some sympathy.I can suggest you to find some professional just to talk share your problems you can even find a free websites in the interent i know some but they wouldnt be any helpfull for you cause they are not in english but you got the point.And about friends it's not so hard to find any if you are shy then try some virtual ones just for practise also dont excpect too much from your friends its hard too find someone who trully understand you and you can trust usually those kinds of friends are made in childhood you grow up together and that history make you so close but now it easy to find someone who you can talk to.Dont judge yourself so hard find people with who you feel comfortable with everything will be fine it's just a matter of time.Have some fun!!!
• Greece
12 Aug 11
Oh i forgot there is no such "animal" who didnt manipulate's people so about that resembles that you play with people's feeling i guess you are not some kind of "bitc h".Everything is normal in moderate amounts!!!
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
14 Aug 11
Thats so sad to hear wong! But I would say you one thing..you love your mom very much, so you dont need to expect from her in return. Keep loving her and feel she always love you at her heart and shows hatred at outside. Time brings changes to many things and hearts in world. She cannot be hard always. Dont feel you are alone and a failure..Now stand up, cheer up, you have someone whom you love on earth, then you are not alone. Set some goals and target on it, no matter how much time you fail in it, dont give up. Set target to come up in life, in studies, good job and at your mom old age, you are gonna support her..so start working for that. Think the target and act towards positively. Through out the emotional feelings, they will make you down!
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
14 Aug 11
Unfortunately you are Far from alone with having feelings like this due to the way your Mom treats you. Sometimes I think the Best thing a person can do is try and distance themselves from the person tending to hurt you for a while. Find things you can do, and enjoy doing and just take time for yourself. Being depressed and allowing things like this to get you down will often be downfalls to keep you from being what you really want to be.
@jaiho2009 (39142)
• Philippines
13 Aug 11
Sorry to hear that you are having some problem when dealing with your mom. I also started a topic about mother's love and I expressed how I define a mother's love in spite of all the hardships and sacrifices a mother can ever do. I know few mother's really acted bad towards their kids...but still I believed that a mother will always be a mother. have a great weekend jaiho®
@ebuscat (5935)
• Philippines
13 Aug 11
For me it is good emotion you are to be the one who happy is more Jehovah God.
• Philippines
13 Aug 11
That was very sad, but keep the faith girl, soon your mother will realize your worth and she'll be supportive, Believe in God, there'r nothing impossible.
@sagnik42 (3592)
• India
13 Aug 11
That is sad. When people around you do not support you, it is difficult to feel good about yourself. But then again, it is not always like that. She loves you, but maybe you are unable to see it. There is no point in blaming her, because at the end of the day you have to do what you need to do. A support is a boost, but you need to find it elsewhere if you can't find it from your mother. Work hard and try to love whatever you are doing. You will make friends and have a boyfriend and someday succeed if you are determined. In the process, hopefully, your mother will notice, how beautiful a daughter she has.
13 Aug 11
hi:) oh that's so sad, mom supposed to be the one supporting their children in anything, they gave the biggest confidence their child should have, so if she don't believe with you that's horrible and I feel pity for you, but perhaps its better if you talk to her and explain your side and tell her that you need her and be there to encourage you.