If you were to ask me if I miss the place I used to live at, I'd say no.

Canada
August 14, 2011 8:06am CST
Almost a year ago, we moved out of an unsafe neighborhood to a better place. I was glad to be able to turn a new page in my life. Sure, the old place had some advantages, but there were more disadvantages to it as well. I had a bank right across the street, which was nice, more convenient than now. The grocery store was closer, and it was a shorter drive to work. With the torrential rains we've had recently, being there would have been a bonus. Being up on a hill, the rain never had a chance to flood our area. Moving there was a breeze. We walked everything across the lane way to that place from our old apartment, and were able to do it a bit at a time. But the apartment itself, and the area was not nice. The apartment, a 2 story, 3 bedroom deal, was small. And for the money we were paying, it wasn't worth it. The main floor consisted of a kitchen and a large living room. No storage except for the kitchen cupboards. There were more than enough of them though. And there was a dishwasher as well, which was nice. The windows were small and barred. The front door had 3 locks on it, a door knob lock, a dead bolt and a sliding dead bolt. There was a narrow, L shaped staircase leading upstairs, it was nearly impossible to get some furniture upstairs, in fact, a wardrobe we'd purchased had to be hauled up to the roof and into the place through the deck door. We couldn't take it with us when we moved because we couldn't get it out of there. Our bedroom had a small window. There was no closet space, and just enough room for our double bed and one night table. Our landlord had promised to build us a custom shelving/storage unit, but never got around to it. I'm just under 5'2" tall, and could lie on the bed and touch both walls. The room was only 7' wide. The second bedroom, we used it for storage and to put the hamsters and guinea pigs we had. There was no window and no closet either. It got really hot in there, as did the rest of the upstairs area. The 3rd bedroom, which our roommate staked claim to, was the only one with a closet. It had its own bathroom, but only a toilet and a sink. Both of his windows had bars on them as well. The bathroom was extremely small, was hard to move in there, and near impossible to get the dog in there to bathe him. The deck, for a while, was the nicest feature of our apartment. It was quite large and there was a small storage area out there as well. Parking was a nightmare for most of the time we were there. Our landlord was supposed to pay for parking, but for some reason, failed to do so most months, and several times I was warned about parking illegally in a spot he was supposed to pay for. Even when the spot was marked as mine, there were people who would park in that spot. Those times warranted a call to parking enforcement, but the car owners never took too kindly to that. One of them even came at us with a baseball bat, and another one threatened me later and put a nasty note on my car. When new people moved in next door, our peace and quiet was shattered. They would throw all night parties, not caring about anyone around them. There was one night, it took until 4am before the police could get by to shut them up. We hadn't been the only ones to complain either. After we had moved in there, it was getting cold, and we asked for heat. We couldn't get any. The landlord gave us nothing but runaround for almost 2 months about why the furnace wasn't working. We stopped paying our rent because of it. He found a way to get it working after that, but was angry that we had done that. Our walls were cinder block with no insulation at all, it's no wonder it was really cold in there by November. We wanted to put a deck on the roof at one point, got the go ahead, then he changed his mind. Then he said it was ok, and then said no again. He cited some sort of safety concerns the last time, and that was the end of that. We'd wanted the deck so we could put up a fence around our roof, not only to keep people out, but to block off the neighbors and get a bit of sound proofing. By the time we were ready to move out of there, we were more than happy to do so. The place was starting to fall apart, the walls were cracking under the ceiling, the dryer stopped working, and it was hotter than anything in the summer. The 2nd bedroom didn't even have a window, so that room was the worst. When we bought a portable air conditioner for the summer, we put it in our room and brought the pets into our room to keep them cool. So you ask me if I miss that place, and I say no. I'm glad I don't live there anymore.
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8 responses
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
14 Aug 11
kris --- very good writing. elaborate, clear and unambiguous. You like that place very much and that is why u have described that place in detail. U have not told much about the present one. U are wondering how I got what is there in ur mind?
• Canada
14 Aug 11
I didn't like that place. This one is far better. Now, we live in a house with more space, even more storage space and a huge backyard. There's no clutter, no mess, no hard time figuring out where things were going to go, and no real difficulty getting things inside. No parking issues, we have a driveway for the cars, and certainly no worry about people stealing our mail like we had at the old place. It's peaceful here, and we have central air, so we don't have to worry about being hot. Having full control over the temperature is a bonus, we don't have to worry about freezing in the winter anymore. No loud parties anywhere, the people on this street have far more respect than the others where we used to live. It's more of a stress free life now, and that's what we needed.
@ravisivan (14079)
• India
14 Aug 11
are you in a hillock now. good. normally I use to find sad write ups about cats, dogs only. now only it has changed a little. it changed kris. If it is hillock it will be good and nice scenery.
• South Africa
15 Aug 11
Despite all the wonderful things you have mentioned about the place surely the must be a downside .In all the place that I have stayed the have been pros and cons. I remember staying in a quiet suburb, I hated it becuase things where not easily accessable (eg shopping malls,friends etc)
@catof1 (683)
• United States
14 Aug 11
No I would not miss it either and it sounds like you moved to a safer place too. I find it very hard these days to find a GOOD place to live with the economy and all. I mean if your credit is not perfect your are %^&% out of luck. ANd even when it does improve you are still treated like below mud. I hope to find a very nice place nine months from now. I am glad to hear that you ard doing much better theses days though it is a sad thing to leave behind such a nice piece of furniture.
• Canada
14 Aug 11
Our credit is crappy. My roommate saved the day with his, and I managed to seal the deal on this place due to the fact that I'm a landscaper and promised to maintain the property. I've yet to finish the walkway and front porch, neither is an easy job, and without my van, I can't get the needed supplies to complete either job. This place needs a lot of work done, but we'll get to it in time. We're not like the previous tenants, they used to call the landlord to change a lightbulb. Not us though, we can do more than that, we've had to around here. When we moved out of a basement apartment years ago, we had to leave several pieces of furniture behind, we had no space for them in the other basement we moved to. That was disappointing as we had paid good money for them. At least at the last place, the landlord paid for the wardrobe so it wasn't so bad.
@daeckardt (6237)
• United States
29 Aug 11
I don't think I would have stayed there for any length of time, especially after the landlord kept going against his word (parking and changing mind about deck). I wouldn't have liked not having air or having neighbors leaving nasty notes on the car or partying at all hours. I think I would have moved out much sooner.
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
7 Sep 11
Hi, kris182_2000. You have explained your disapproval of your apartment fully well. I am glad that you no longer stay here. It is no fun to have to live somewhere that is not safe, but yet uncomfortable too! I have been in a situation almost like this myself. I used to live in an apartment building where many people would fight all of the time. It was a lot of hidden crimes that were taking place. Many of the guys would smoke wheed and I could smell it inside of my apartment. We lived here for a year and we moved out last year. Next month will be a year that we have been gone from this apartment. I also had a neighbor that was from the pits of Hades. He did everything that he could to make my family lives miserable. He constantly bumped his ceiling every time we would even walk! He was so annoying. He did not let us breathe at all. It was very difficult to live under this stress and pressure. I am so glad that you are living someplace else that you don't have to butt heads with anyone in fixing up your new place. It is terrible when you have to deal with a landlord that keeps trying to get out of fixing something up. And they wonder why many tenants fail to pay the rent???
• United Arab Emirates
15 Aug 11
Well I would not miss it too because you are far better off where you are right now. But it would be nice to look back and smile.
• United States
14 Aug 11
It really does sound like you live in a better home now and it is much more convenient for you. Good thing because sometimes people move from place to place hoping for better and it can be a nightmare. Sounds like you have the opposite and are doing much better there. I am glad because with all you have going at least you have a home you enjoy.
• Philippines
14 Aug 11
It's great hearing that you already moved out of the place. My previous apartment was sort of the same. We were being told to move because of our dog so it's also becoming a nuisance to us. Okay, it's a lot different but I'm talking about being bothered here. LOL
14 Aug 11
Its important to live somewhere safe if you can manage to. I'm glad you are somewhere safe now and sorry you had to put up with what you did.