How blind are you in the name of "LOVE"?

Philippines
August 14, 2011 9:11pm CST
Some people leave behind their fortunes,even take away their life just to reach their lover.They could become hard headed just to follow what their lover wanted them to achieve in the name of love.One has to climb numerous mountain peaks just to ask the hand of the woman for marriage.I know this has been a topic with many friends and comdrades in the neighborhood,yet it is quite remarkable in our memories what we have done during our younger years.What about the stories of other individuals who maybe not known but has a love story with extraordinary adventures?MyLot friends do you have such an experience?Please share to us all.....................
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9 responses
15 Aug 11
Yes definitely I have blinded by Love before. I've even opposed my parents because they doesn't like the guy, yes I was hard headed at that time. I've been to conflicts with my sister because of that guy. Yes, we absolutely know that regrets really came at last and it did happened to me. I realized what I did is such a foolish one. The guy I'm with did foolish things to me that really pissed me off. And now I have learned one thing that we must not be blinded by that Love instead we must have to widen our views, whatever other people or our families advice to us.. God Bless....Happy Mylotting!!
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• Philippines
16 Aug 11
Even if we say that-This incident should never be discussed or remembered yet now comes both our sad stories false love.After all that was happening we are still standing and fighting.I have already had a nice family with my beautiful children to cherish--What more could I ask for.Have a happy day.
25 Aug 11
Your so blessed you find already the true happiness you seek in your life. And I admired you that. Life is so wonderful and we must have live it to the fullest to attain those endeavors. But sad to say it did happen to me, and I must have admit it because its reality. Thanks for your advice! I wish you all the best for you and to your family. May God Bless you Happy Mylotting
@pbbbsra (1214)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
I don't think love is blind. Love sees... but it knows how to close it's eyes. Me and my partner is life both know our weaknesses and there are things we still don't agree with. But because we loved each other... we accepted those and decided to live together compromising with the things in order to keep everything fine. When we fall in love, we just love, despite everything. We don't get blind... love does not close it's eye either, we just accept the person as he is and we learn to love even the bad things about our partner thru acceptance. We also got thru with a lot of trials regarding culture difference and family acceptance, but we stood together strong, hand in hand, and we won the fight.
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• Philippines
16 Aug 11
That just goes to show that love really makes us blind because even if we see that real you,love erase all your impurities in the eyes of your beholder.The act of acceptance makes us with everlasting choice from our lover.To the real world you or I may not be attractive to other people cause they find many faults in my appearance, yet to the eyes of your lover, you are the most beautiful woman he meets.So that theory that evolves blindness in the essence of love proves correct in the eyes of the lover.Please enjoy your life and love to the fullest.
@sender621 (14956)
• United States
15 Aug 11
Sometimes love shows us how much of our heart belongs to someone or something. It can quickly blind us to what is just and fair and tear at our heartstrings. We know in our heads what should be right and wrong but the ways of love can turn us around to make choices that we otherwise may not make.
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
That is the most painful reaction love can give us when we are lost yet if we can just open our eyes in our surroundings--There are plenty of one to be,yet stop because you are still in pain,maybe crying-- just do not end your life because that is the most unlikeable thing you could do.Just go on with your life and see other people around,by doing so you could find someone special in your heart.Have fun....
@mods196621 (3631)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
Yes there are lots of blind people when it comes to love and why this 4 letter word to powerful to break all words and life. It is powerful in many aspects like it can make our life good and bad happy and sad..For me now it makes me feel sad, this will not bring me now the happiness that brought me when i was young waiting for the guy that i love most. u dont know why it is happening to me. I am not just a blind but crazy the most craziest woman in the world. I feel bitter into my present situation when it comes to love. You know i am living now in fantasy correct me if i am wrong friend. I feel i lost the love. So i am now a great pretender.
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• Philippines
16 Aug 11
You are not the only person who has fallen victim of lost love.Be strong as I have also been a victimn of this scenario yet I just survive and founded my true and wonderful love.I beat you would never be feeling alone for the rest of your life because your love cheated you--he is not the only guy in this world who could give you happiness.Cheer up lady and make yourself vibrant again and open your heart and mind,who knows you can meet someone unexpected into your lonely life.I wish for your happiness........do not surrender---life is full of wonder---enjoy it.
@gelayagui98 (1337)
• Australia
15 Aug 11
Sometimes it was true that "love is blind", the two person is blind in the name of love that's why because of their being blind they fall in love and they ended up into marriage - walking in the aisle and exchanging vow in front of the altar.
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
You are right about that fact yet some love really is a headache because realization is never fulfilled by either side.It is a wish to all concern that it ends in the altar to make their bows of rsponsibilities--This is the most amazing part of falling in love.
• India
15 Aug 11
My goodness, I have not such experiences in my life.
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• Philippines
16 Aug 11
It will hunt you anytime no matter what you do because love is like a lightning that just struck you directly.You can not concentrate what you do,even in your sleep because the person is in your mind,that keeps your heart beat faster,especially when you are having an encounter without the expectations.As for now that you are still growing it will just develope in your inner self---so be ready for love............
@trezege (66)
• South Africa
15 Aug 11
One thing I regret doing is kicking a friend of myne out of my apartment so that my partner can move in with me. Before I kicked him out, we got along so well and I was happy to have him around ,since I never realy had good friends, then the lover came to the picture, I changed immediately(for the worse).She put me under so much pressure to change certain things in my life (including kicking my friend out)and since I was in love, her wish became my command. But today she has gone so has my friend. When its comes to love , no matter how strong you are you, can easily be beaten.
• Philippines
16 Aug 11
That is the greatest lesson we can learn when falling in love yet it all depends in our side.No matter how watchful you are with your lover,it just proven that there are still persons who just love you for what you are.True love might strike you back and that all obstacles are still around-- so enjoy your life and make your love life more colorful,yet just be more careful.
@xuyxuy (435)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
I know of someone who have blind in love. She was really hypnotized by the love of his boyfriend. She's not in good terms with her family right now. She even fight with her friends in school and would deny everything that their friends will tell her sister about their getaway with her new found boyfriend. Yes, it's less than a year that they been together and they are very close already. That's what you call blind in the name of love. The period wherein the person in love will not listen to anybody but only to the one he or she love.
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
I do not really get the essence of the feeling that love conquers everything yet it can make you outgrow the consequencies of your relationship.It can also make you smarter the next time around.The greatest medicine of it is forgiveness with all your love because love begets love.
@kharlav (1672)
• Philippines
15 Aug 11
Yes, I was really blind. I was once so inlove with this guy who was from another City/Island. Even if it was a long distance relationship, I fell so much inlove with Him. That I would often sacrifice my time and money just to go to his place. Even if there were already signs of cheating I still do the things I did for quite awhile and just denied the cheating in my mind because I loved him. I didn't listen to my friends to leave him. Well, it was the most traumatic relationship I had.
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• Philippines
15 Aug 11
I can also relate what you have been through because I have also experienced long distance relationship.I did not listen to my relatives and friends that I was just played by this girl whom I was hooked for more than three years of writing letters.In the fourth year of our relationship-She was trying to make me be froced to have the knot tie between our relationship.It was all like a dream that I just felt like a piggy bank in all her words.She did not love me as what I have been dreaming about and the true color of herself proves that she just wanted my financial background to make her dreams come true.We split in an amicable separation.