Will you be happy if you get one happy thing after so many worries, struggles?

India
August 24, 2011 4:35pm CST
We dream of something in our life. But we cant get it easily always. We may come across so many worries and struggle a lot to get it. After that will you get the same happiness if you get your desire without any pains?
4 responses
@reploid (1371)
• France
25 Aug 11
I guess yes, there no reason for not being happy after many struggles.
• India
25 Aug 11
But i fed up after those struggles and it wont make me that much happy. All bad things happened before that only deposit in my mind.
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@reploid (1371)
• France
25 Aug 11
I understand how you feel. By like any struggles it is only temporary. Maybe you should tell us more about these struggles.
• India
25 Aug 11
I cant explain everything. Because its a looonnnnnnggg thing. Anyway i know struggles are temporary. i have that character like if 1 good thing happened after 5 bad experiences, i always remember how i felt bad for those. even i'll forget the happy thing.
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• India
25 Aug 11
Yes,that which we get after much strain and struggle gives immense pleasure.
• India
25 Aug 11
But we might have lost most of the time in troubles....It hurts.
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
25 Aug 11
That would be a huge relief, a happy time after a series of worries. I do believe that there will be a bright light at the end of the tunnel. In fact, that is my way of keeping the strength and determination to maintain efforts and do the best I can managing the worries.
• India
25 Aug 11
Yeah! Sometimes i also believe like every problem have happy ends. But after too much of troubles, i fed up and it wont give me that much happiness when i get it. I might have lost my happy moments in my life. My days might have decreased in the life.
@thanks1961 (7035)
• India
25 Aug 11
Hi, In fact you are talking about one of the best law of nature. Our life is always motivated with some or other dreams and as a fact, it is not necessary to fulfill all as we desired. But whenever we work hard to get it, and our repeated trials for the same to get into our life is the process where we found enjoyment and may fulfill or may not, but the life and time what we spend behind such efforts are always appreciated. Once I reached in this city I was really empty handed and it was my cherished dream to have my own home here. The hard work and my ambitions fulfilled one day and I achieved it. And I was so proud that I got a better one than what I expected or dream of. For the last 5 years I lived here with much pleasure and happiness. But yesterday I sold the flat and after the sale deed and the last night virtually I didn't sleep till early morning 5 am. It is a true and real fact. Whey I said it, if we get our desire without any pains is worthless and which has not 'life or mind' in it. It is a fact that I got a good price and can go for a still better one. Once we get better off things, we could not forget the pain and sorrows we suffered when we lose a real thing that we loved. Thank-s