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@arunadas (111)
India
August 25, 2011 10:55am CST
So what is more difficult?...A LIE that brings a smile or a TRUTH that brings a tear to your eyes?...
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@ravisivan (14079)
• India
25 Aug 11
arunadas -- it depends on value system of the person concerned. If one wants to speak he will tell a truth and bring tears. If one is tactful he will tell a lie and bring a smile. I for one would like to opt for the second. what about you?
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@arunadas (111)
• India
26 Aug 11
Hello Ravi Sir please call me Aruna :) hmmmm as for me i prefer the truth both saying and listening ...but at times i have lied to spare someone's feelings ....but i always make it a point to let them know the truth later....truth is hard but better any day :)
• United States
26 Aug 11
Hi Arunadas! Long time my friend since I have seen you on myLot. I was away also so we may have crossed on here. As for me I believe the truth in the long run will bring on acceptance. See a lie is hard to forever maintain then not only will it bring tears but anger may kick in and no respect will be maintained. The truth will definitely bring on a tear but in the long run there is respect that one upholds and I although I may not be happy with the truth, in the end I will always respect the person.
@arunadas (111)
• India
26 Aug 11
Hello hardworkinggurl :) how you doing?...yep was busy playing with my sister's baby offline to get online :) and just today i read sentence about truth that made me smile "If you never tell lies you don't have to remember anything' :) !!! and yes agree truth is always better in the long run.....
@arunadas (111)
• India
26 Aug 11
and please call me Aruna..... :) iam not used to Aruna Das too much :)
• United States
26 Aug 11
Yes I will remember to call you Aruna! Thank you my friend and hope all is going well.
@Fireheart (683)
• India
25 Aug 11
I think truth would be the difficult, and its hard to say it while compared to lie, we all lie in life at some point of time than truth, somethings are better not to be said specially if it brings other harm, But that doesnt mean people should lie on everything those sort of people who always lie to other wont get anywhere with it thats for sure.
@arunadas (111)
• India
25 Aug 11
Hello Fireheart Thanks for your reply and i like what you say....we got to lie at times but not all the time....i don't there is one person who can honestly say i have never lied in my life...well that itself would be a lie :) but yes we cannot keep lying all the time :)
@veedee13 (242)
• United States
25 Aug 11
I'd rather have the truth than the lie.I don't wanna be happy because of the lies that are being told.The truth might hurt but eventually you'll move on.A lie builds up and once the truth is thrown at you,it gets harder to move on.
@arunadas (111)
• India
25 Aug 11
Hi veedee i like your line 'truth might hurt but eventually you will move on'....in end no matter how many leis are said truth will eventually come out and i guess it will be more painful then.....it is better to know the truth and move on :)0 Thank you for your response :)
@hafiz008 (450)
• India
25 Aug 11
A lie will bring smile for a short period and one has to tell lie in order to sustain former lie. Truth is most successful in life, one can sleep with peace and also tears is for short. Even if we have tears in life because of telling truth, you must understand there is God who is seeing your activities and you will rewarded on the day of judgement.
@arunadas (111)
• India
25 Aug 11
Hi Hafiz!! yep lie always brings temporary happiness only......but sometimes it is necessary especially if you do not want to hurt another person....but agreed truth is much better in the long run..thank you for taking part in this discussion :)