Starting conversion with a beautiful girl.

India
August 25, 2011 3:24pm CST
I have this girl in my college, she is really pretty. Whenever I try to talk with her I don't know why I get very nervous. I don't know how to talk and what to talk. I don't want to have a relationship with her but I just want to be friend with her. How do I overcome nervousness? and how do I find a reason for starting a conversation?
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• Australia
28 Aug 11
I think it's normal to feel abit embarassed when you are meeting someone you like for the first time. You are not alone, but you need to feel confident and know what you are going to say so you don't get nervous and shy. I think you should talk about shared interests? If you know that you have any? If you share classes and colledge or have mutal friends try to find something she will relate to. Also don't take it to seriously, girls can sense nerves and they are usually attracted too cool kids. LOL Atleast, I am... Can't exactly say it's been working well for me though!
• India
28 Aug 11
I will try. thanks.
@nezavisima (7408)
• Bulgaria
26 Aug 11
I think I like this girl and her nervous so every time you speak. Relax and be yourself. for starters you should be able to become friends. made so that you can count on you. Your nervousness and most well-tried to remove it. perhaps begin to communicate more and hang out with friends with girls. nice day!
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• India
27 Aug 11
I think being yourself is very important because when you try to be someone else then you will get messed up.
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@Olleenz (3398)
• Indonesia
25 Aug 11
Seem like you had confident problem. I have this kind of problem once and I solve it with: 1. Make a lot of friend 2. Increase my intellectuality by join several organization, forum discussion I don't know this gonna for you or not but it's work for me.
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• India
26 Aug 11
You are right, I have confidence problem while talking to girls. I will try to make a lot of friends and increase my intellectuality. thanks.