My Parents-in-Law are Funny and Cute!
By ronadelle
@ronadelle (1547)
Philippines
September 3, 2011 3:34am CST
As some of you knows, I recently got married. My husband and I discussed and agreed of having a baby not this time but maybe next year or the year after that. It's because we still have plans of travelling and going out of the country and mainly because I'm still not ready to become a mom. I'd like to enjoy the early married life alone with my husband and he's supportive with that.
And so, my parents-in-law were like waiting for an answer from me ever since the day we got married. They're already old and really wanting to have a grandchild with us. Haha. I know that they know our plans and are very supportive with us. I think they're like teasing me for me to decide soon? Yet, I'm not pressured at all. I find them really cute and lovable and respects our every decision. They even come over and pray with us. I just love them.
So, do you find your parents-in-law cute sometimes? Or do they pressure you?
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
3 Sep 11
Wow! you are lucky your parents in law is nice but friend my parents in law are also good because I have no child since last 7 years and whenever I cry about child and tell ohhh God what wrong with me why this curse on me etc.. I will kill myself without child then my husband and my parents in law tell me dont worry my child God will give you because God taking your exam trust on them. One day they will give you but not tell me oohhh you have no child you are not good women so I love my parents in law and my husband too..
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@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
3 Sep 11
Hi surekha. I didn't know that you still don't have a child. But you know, don't feel bad about yourself. Only people thinks that way that women are not good if they can't have a child yet or can't really have. Because for me, it's not the standard. Never think of it as a curse please because it's never like that. I pray that God will bless you with a child in your womb sooner and later! Don't lose hope because you have your parents and husband there who supports and love you all the way. ;) Love love to you!
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@surekharathi (14146)
• India
3 Sep 11
Thanks for blessings friend and I know God will give me before my dying.. because hope and trust is the way to live the life. Tell me my friend my discussion is good or not I received lots of responses like 30 to 40 I comment back but not my rating is increased whats the problem with my rating.. since last month only 92..
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@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
3 Sep 11
Oh, I'm sorry. I don't know that either and I don't know also about the rating system and where to find it. I think we both need to read the guidelines once again. ;( Sorry, I can't help you for I don't know the reason too.
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@strawberrychocodahi (4818)
• Philippines
3 Sep 11
That's good to hear from you. I cannot use the word "cute" as for my in-laws. They never even bother to ask about grand kids since we don't often talk and we are living far away from them and we do visit them only whenever my hubby has his day off.
Probably its because there is also a language barrier between us that I am not that close to talk to them and joke them. I can spill a joke or two, but not that I can get along well since FIL has an attitude that I cannot spell out also, it's really different if you are a foreigner.
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@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
3 Sep 11
Hello, I'm sorry that you're having a hard time with your in-laws. I hope that someday they'll be loving to you and your kids as well. I missed to say that I'm having foreigner in-laws as well for my husband is a Taiwanese. The good thing is, they're very open-minded with things. Probably because they are Christian and they love the fact of having good and harmonious relationship with family. Well, I hope that they stay that way forever. ;)
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@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
3 Sep 11
I see. I hope that you're still happy and enjoying with kids even though you're having a hard time taking care of them. Try considering having some fun with your wife alone. Have somebody or relatives to look after them so as you and your wife could have some time to relax and enjoy and rejuvenate so that you'll be all refreshed to go back to your kids. You can do this on your anniversary or birthday of either of you. God bless!
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@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
3 Sep 11
I'm sorry for the second comment. It should for vidhya who commented right next to yours. ;)
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@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
5 Sep 11
I am not married yet but the mother of my boyfriend I call my mom anyways and the same with his dad. I have been with him for two years and they have done tons for me already. Sometimes his mom can say mean things about me but to my face she seems to act different. I would have to say she does help me out a lot when I need it but I already have kids she calls her own and she already has nine grand kids so she does not pressure us. Only to get along.
@Amanda81587 (3042)
• United States
5 Sep 11
She is nice to me and I know she cares for me and my children she just has a problem with talking behind people's backs. She was born into a family of drama and that's how she is with them. But she is a lot of help and nice to hang out with.
@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
5 Sep 11
Wow! I'd like to stick on the being-nice-t0-you part. Don't worry because I believe that she loves you and that she's just not very showy of it. ;)
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@picjim (3002)
• India
3 Sep 11
Your discussion comes as a breath of fresh air.I like your parents-in-law as they have a sense of humor and are kind and considerate.Rarely you shall find people who understand their son/daughter in law.My parent-in-law is kind and supportive.I do not feel pressure with my parent-in-law.
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@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
3 Sep 11
I really do thank God for giving me such lovely parents-in-law. I'm glad that yours are also kind and supportive and true, we can't find them anywhere. They're such a blessing!
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@libramie (562)
• Philippines
3 Sep 11
You are very fortunate ron, so am I, having a prudent parent-in-law. No tampering, no meddling and no one fooling us, unlike others. All we have a freedom of everything we want in our married life. Therefore, we must grant a great love and care for them.
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@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
3 Sep 11
I agree, they need to be rewarded with showing them love back. I'm happy that you have such good in-laws as well!
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@whispers168 (768)
• United States
3 Sep 11
Just take the time you need before having a baby.Children are a blessing but they do change everything.Enjoy your married life first and when the time comes for you to have a baby you will know it.I'm happy for you that you have such nice in-laws.I have a wonderful,sweet,loving, mother-in-law my self.
@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
5 Sep 11
I'm glad that you do have such in-laws as well!
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@jazel_juan (15747)
• Philippines
4 Sep 11
Lucky you then. There are those who cannot come in terms with their in-laws, some even argue a lot or at worst, quarrel with their in-laws. I cannot tell if i am what with mine, i have not been witht them for a long time. They only come here on occasional visits and usually just a a few weeks and often times they do not stay here at my home but at my brother-in-law's house. Right now they are k..but for me to tell if i am really that good with them..maybe i can if i get to really live with them
@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
5 Sep 11
I see. That's something to figure out then. I think you'll get to know if given the opportunity to be with them.
@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
5 Sep 11
That's nice to hear! I pray that they won't ever change to us!
its nice to hear that your parents in law was very funny and cute.,even though i'm not married i know many parent in law,which always angry to there son's wife
wish you happy life with your family and for the new comer
@koperty3 (1876)
•
3 Sep 11
I find my future mother in law really supportive and nice. She is better mother to me that my real mother who I can not trust. Yesterday I spoke to my mother in law by the phone and she said to me that my mother lied to her again. I feel so disappointed and ashamed and again I thought that I can not trust my own mother at all. I feel sad but what can I do? My mother in law is really supportive and nice to me. She knows what I came through in my life.
@ronadelle (1547)
• Philippines
5 Sep 11
Oh I'm sorry for what your real mother does but I'm happy for you that you have such a nice and very supportive and understanding mother-in-law. May your relationship with her grow even more intimate. For me, that's what's important. God bless you!
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