How do I resolve problems with husbands who do not want to communicate?

Indonesia
September 7, 2011 5:22am CST
My husband and I have different ways of communication from the beginning. I was more expressive and are always trying to express my feelings. While the husband does not talk much and start a conversation. If there is a problem between us, I prefer to discuss it with the intention to finish quickly, while the husband chooses to remain silent and avoid. There was never any words to solve or the solution. If I am taking the initiative to talk, he could have been even more angry, not to speak any longer. And if it were so, I became more emotional and more talk. so, How will we resolve the issues between us?