What is your policy when you find that you lost confidence in yourself?

China
September 10, 2011 12:51am CST
Life is partly fancinating and partly frastrating.How do you bridge these two mind state? my sister get involved in a marriage problem recently,she almost get lost about what should do and what should not.she feels very bad,losing her confidence in herself.she told me that she can not see a ray of hope for her life.So can you give her any advice?I need to add that she is disabled when born.
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@pogi253 (1587)
• Philippines
10 Sep 11
First you must to take a step back and eliminate yourself from the disarray of the world that you have been rooted in and when you can do this, you must take stock of the condition and tell yourself you must unwind and let your heart slow down a little. Nowadays, look at the stuffs in your life that are causing you pressure and those that you are not doing so well in.
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
Wow! Amazing advise my pogi253 he he...so let's unwind and drink tequilla then ...ha ha! And maybe you can make my heart slow don a little :)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
slow down i mean...wrong spelling he he :)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
Hi sherry801, Life is really not fair all the time. However it is how we handle pressures in our lives that makes a difference. I would like to share to your sister this true story...at 13 a girl was attacked by shark while surfing. Within 6 months she was surfing again competitively ....WITH ONE ARM! Her name is BETHANY HAMILTON 2004 ESPN Comeback Athlete of the Year. How we respond to the challenges in our lives will determine what we become after the game, that includes our struggles in life. It is our choice if we want to be a winner or a loser. Encourage your sister all the time. Take care and God bless you and your sister :)