i'm missing someone,it really hurts!how should i get over it?

Philippines
September 12, 2011 5:13am CST
love is missing someone whenever you're apart,but somehow feeling warm inside because you're close in heart. i actually feel this, and it really hurts.the one i love is working abroad and the only communication we have is through texts,call,and video chatting.its fine with me coz i love him and i can wait but i just can't help but cry often times.i even have a pouch eye this morning.he called me last night and i cried so much after we talked, i really miss him so much.. can anyone please give me some advise for this?
3 responses
• Philippines
12 Sep 11
It must have been hard for the both of you. That's normal since you love him so much. Anyway, how long have he been away? If just recently, I think you will be better if you already get used to the situation. But if that was long ago, the, you must do other stuffs. Keep yourself busy and just remember that he is still with you, just not for the moment.
• Philippines
12 Sep 11
thanks for that..its just almost 2 month since he's been away.maybe its true i should get myself busy..thanks for that advice.it really helped me..
• Philippines
12 Sep 11
Trust him always, ok. Long distance relationship sometimes have trust problems. . Just remember that he is also feeling what you are feeling right now. And opening up or discussing the matter -like this one -is a good outlet.
• Philippines
13 Sep 11
you're right..trust is the only thing that keeps our relationship stronger especially in our situation..we dont have problem with trust naman,we both trust each other..i just miss him everyday thats why i feel so lonely..this discussion really made me feel good inside.. did you experienced this too?it seems like you're good at this..hehe
@eseulhan (199)
• Philippines
12 Sep 11
Just close your eyes and youll never be to far from him. Can i recommend you to listen to this song "close your eyes" by westlife. I hope that made you comfortable a bit. I have never experience a long distance relationship but i can feel its really hard that you can only meet after a very long time. For me being apart makes a relationship stronger and the fondness for each other gets more deeper. Life is like that, loneliness, pain and sufferings may come but there is always a rainbow after a rain. You would be happy soon!!! I know! Good for you that you still communicate with each other,. Have faith and keep yourself busy! You can do it! goodluck!
@eseulhan (199)
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
haha..that song is old already, remember westlife? Its during the years the are on the popularity line. I like that song too, its really the right song for long distance lovers. You can try listen to "i wanna grow old with you" by westlife again. Its a nice song too. You will overcome it, u can! You have survived for 3 months, u can do it! 6mos is just short. Dont wait for it, in a blink of an eye it will come. Goodluck!
• Philippines
13 Sep 11
hi eseulhan..i just listened to the song you recommended.i love it..is that a new song?its the first time i heard it..i would listen to it everyday so i wont be lonely..thanks for that..its so hard really,we'll be apart for 9 months..3 months has passed and still im not getting used to it..i still miss him all the time..but it seems that everyday when i miss him, my love grows more and more..i really wish the remaining 6 months will pass so i could see the rainbow after the rain..hehe..thanks eseulhan..
@shanemae (1025)
• Philippines
13 Sep 11
its really hard to be away from someone you love. for the mean time you can make yourself busy with stuffs you love to do. work, exercise whatever things you like to do.but remember to keep the communication. it's also lonely out there. its hard for both of you so remember to keep the communication. also keep the trust with your partner. that's the main thing you both should preserve to keep the love burning!
• Philippines
13 Sep 11
wow..i love that keep the love burning phrase..hehe..thats what we're doing right now.he calls me once or twice a week and im satisfied with that since his schedule is so complicated and his work is so hard..i really appreciate all his efforts to communicate with me..and im really doing my best so he won't feel alone there..i drop him messages most of the time everyday and i hope he appreciates all my efforts too..im so happy were going stronger despite our difficult situation..i miss him sooo much..huhu by the way thanks for the advice shanemae!hehe