can you hate and love a person at the same time?

Philippines
September 13, 2011 4:41am CST
loving and hating a person occurs when that fellow breaks one's heart. i have experienced falling in love, giving my best but it ended in betrayal. when the guy comes back i could not help but hated him..no matter how i prayed my hatred lasted for quite a long time before i totally forgave him. friends said i was still madly in love that's why i still hated him...would you agree?
3 responses
• United States
13 Sep 11
Yes,I agree with you being I went through the very same thing. I was cheated on and he begged me to forgive him but I could not. so I hated his azz for years and never looked back.
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
I'd like to ask, have you already forgiven him? In my case, I have totally forgiven him and if time comes when we could talk face to face I'd like to tell him I have forgiven him and I am always wishing the best for him.
13 Sep 11
Yes you can be in love with someone but you can hate them at the same time. I sometimes hate my boyfriend because of the mean jokes he says and sometimes when he's stressed he'll yell at me. But at the same time, I love him so much. and I just don't want to loose him. I wouldn't have my relationship any other way though.
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
tnx for your reply...the hatred that you feel sometimes is just superficial...i know you are not hating him really. maybe you are just disappointed sometimes because of his behavior..your love for him prevails after all.. keep it up
@yfchin83 (127)
• Malaysia
13 Sep 11
Love and hate is probably the most intense emotion that humans can feel. There is a thin line between love and hate. Hate is a passion that is equal interest to love. That is why a human that is hurt from love can do evil things out of hatred like murder out of jealousy.
• Philippines
14 Sep 11
yeah it's true and if one who has undergone depression because of betrayal won't be able to overcome there might be a chance that he could do such evil things. so the only thing to do is to strengthen one's faith because it's only God whom we can rely upon in times of trouble. anyway, tnx for the response...God bless you