If some guys around you are very unfriendly, what will you do?

Sweden
September 13, 2011 9:03am CST
I'm a good guy, I've been getting along well with others! Because of my performance the boss of mine sent me to another school abroad, so I reached the new place recently, and I have to work here for four years. But I found that some guys here are very unfriendly, no matter what I do they just unlike me %_
6 responses
@thatgirl13 (7307)
• South Korea
13 Sep 11
Hello there, First of all, welcome to mylot. I hope you have a wonderful time here Moving on with the question, you will have to understand one thing. Not everyone in the world will like you. There will be people who will not like you, ignore you and such but that is just how things are. If I were you, I would try being friendly to them once or twice and if they still ignore me, I would let them be and not even try any more. I would just mind my business and only talk to them when needed. So yeah just do what you are doing and good luck with life
• Sweden
14 Sep 11
think you!I will remember what you said!
@Kish2328 (71)
• United States
13 Sep 11
Are you saying you are in a different country now and those people don't like you? Could it be discrimination or they just envy you cos you are good in everything that you do while at work? It could be for some reason, who knows. One thing I can say is, there is no need to please anybody just for them to like you. If people don't like you and doesn't want to talk to you, they are not worth your time. Surround yourself with positive people who love and care for you, not the haters.
• Sweden
13 Sep 11
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@cow_boy29 (236)
• United States
14 Sep 11
try to be friendly with them, give them my smile, give them repect that you want to be friend with them so maybe them wan to be your friend
@cupkitties (6702)
• United States
14 Sep 11
There's no telling what the problem is if they ignore you, but there's a saying "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you." In other words you can just ignore them too. Don't waste your energy on people like that. You have much more important things to deal with.
@viney17 (688)
• Philippines
13 Sep 11
hmm well i i will either avoid him since he doesnt want my company, or on the other hand befriend him, who knows? he or she might just not be used to interacting with people around him/her so i will helped him/her open up with people around him/her thus will make him/her make friends with others
• Philippines
13 Sep 11
I suggest that you study and observe the culture of the people around you. You need to find out what impresses them, what makes them happy, angry etc. You are in a new environment and you need to adapt to that environment in order to fit in so that they will be friendly to you.