My friend destroyed their car today

I just finished talking to a friend of mine who wrecked and totaled their car. As soon as I found out, I called to make sure she was alright. Even though I live 780 miles away, I offered my support. For some reason she now thinks that I am trying to argue with her and fault her and not having sympathy for her. What is so strange is I never voiced any of these things and I thought I was being supportive by asking how she was doing, did she go to the hospital, are you resting, etc. By the end of the conversation she hung up on me and then texted me and told me I was being augmentative and unsympathetic. I just said I hope she feels better and good night. I assume because she is in pain is why she acted this way. At least I hope so.