How do we handle FAILURE..??

@bond027 (107)
India
September 15, 2011 7:44am CST
Hello Friends! Life I think is full of surprises.So there is not only success which you achieve, sometimes you also go through failure...!!I have also seen failure and I must say they are really come as surprise and occur when you are unprepared...I have noticed no matter how much you mentally prepare to handle a failure..we can't handle it when we face it...:-)..Why I don't know...!!Hey guyzz I am sure you all also have faced failure in life..So how do you handle them...mates...do you cry and cry till a new water body gets created...or you laugh and laugh until you end up in a mental asylum..hehe:D Seriously what you guyzzzzz do..........??????
18 responses
@cow_boy29 (236)
• United States
16 Sep 11
when you fail dont ever never think to give up, imagine what you become if you success
• United States
16 Sep 11
the way i deal with failure is to always try to face it head on and not run from it even though i am young i have faced failure many many times in my life i think you should use failure to learn from your mistakes that made you to fail in the first place to better yourself then try again and you just might succeed failure is nothing to cry over or laugh at there is an old saying that goes failure looks down worry looks back and hope looks up so keep hope alive and always look up
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
Hello friends, failures are part of our life. Sometimes we can't avoid it. Especially when we are not prepared for it. But failures lets you realized for your mistakes. It reminds you the attention you need to improve your skills. Yet, you need to be aware ahead and accept that failures may come to your life even if you are prepared for it and you don't expect it may appear in any other way. But when you failed. It doesn't mean that it's all over for you. It just the beginning of you as someone new. It's worthless to blame yourself when you are sad and disappointed. Don't be afraid to face failure again. Think positive at all times and be confident to yourself instead. Make it as your lessons to improve yourself and never let it happen again. You may avoid if you place your in mind on alert, think ahead before you decide or take an action, put some dedication to your efforts to see all your hard works in progress. Lastly never forget to thanks to GOD with all your heart even if you have failed. It would add to your confident and determination to pursue. Trust me it works for me all the time. I hope it would help you :)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
Hello friends, failures are part of our life. Sometimes we can't avoid it. Especially when we are not prepared for it. But failures lets you realized for your mistakes. It reminds you the attention you need to improve your skills. Yet, you need to be aware ahead and accept that failures may come to your life even if you are prepared for it and you don't expect it may appear in any other way. But when you failed. It doesn't mean that it's all over for you. It just the beginning of you as someone new. It's worthless to blame yourself when you are sad and disappointed. Don't be afraid to face failure again. Think positive at all times and be confident to yourself instead. Make it as your lessons to improve yourself and never let it happen again. You may avoid if you place your in mind on alert, think ahead before you decide or take an action, put some dedication to your efforts to see all your hard works in progress. Lastly never forget to thanks to GOD with all your heart even if you have failed. It would add to your confident and determination to pursue. Trust me it works for me all the time. I hope it would help you :)
• Philippines
16 Sep 11
If you failed,that is not the reason t back up...but to move forward..life without failure there is no success,meaningless,boring,is like no good taste.. There is failure because it is part of life,to be mature,how to think wisely in the next level of life.. a times i face the failure,what i do is to cry ,and then accept the happening....because i can do nothing about it,but t accept all the circumstances...God is the highest helper..and comfort..
@jricky1 (6809)
• China
16 Sep 11
I usually try to think in another positive attitude.Everybody would go through this,so the best way for us is to be confident and try to tell yourself that you are the best.Through the hints,and live positively,i think there wouldn't any barriers to us.Good luck!
@vickylao (46)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
hello bondo27, Life is full of surprises as you've said and part of it is to fail sometimes. Life is nothing without trials and challenges then failure is part of life's trial. Well, handling trials depending upon how strong you are to face it.It doesn't matter if you're ready for it but it matters to your willingness on how to face it. Crying is part of our willingness to accept it. The easiest thing that we can do it is to cry and to drink.Usually if we meet failure we drink a lot and cry a lot to forget it but In our life failure makes us strong enough to face another huge failure someday because we are not perfect. Though we are trying to be perfect but we can't be.
• United States
15 Sep 11
I handle it pretty well. I just keep trying again until I succeed.
@kry893 (222)
• Canada
15 Sep 11
Hi Bond, yes, I have had failures in this and that and I have felt sad about my own failures. But I try to remind myself that everyone fails at some point in their life. Everyone makes mistakes. So, I just treat my failures as a life learning experience and hope I can learn from those failures and not to repeat them again.
• India
15 Sep 11
There are many things that the person wants or like or to achieve that thing but he can't approach to that due to some reasons . that mean he has accept to accept his failure with baldness and dignity rather than to frustrate from the life and do some thing like that he has not to do .
@pahak627 (4197)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
During failures, I made it a point that I will accept whatever that comes into my life. However, it's really hard to handle failures. The thought that our friends and family might laugh at us made it so unbearable however, we still can overcome such feeling as time passes.
• India
15 Sep 11
For me failure is just like breaker where we slow down our speed and after some time again attain our original speed. We can learn a lot from failure, it teaches us many things, we can learn that where we were wrong and in future will not make such type mistakes. So when I get failure neither I cry nor laugh. I just behave as I always do and again start trying.
• India
15 Sep 11
For me failure is just like breaker where we slow down our speed and after some time again attain our original speed. We can learn a lot from failure, it teaches us many things, we can learn that where we were wrong and in future will not make such type mistakes. So when I get failure neither I cry nor laugh. I just behave as I always do and again start trying.
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
Failure is just a part of our life. We may not appreciate success if we never experience failure. The most important thing is, we need to know how to deal with Failures. It is okay to failed, we just make sure to rise up. We can cry to our family and friends, and to God but never question God or blame Him if we failed. Sometimes we may experience failure for us to grow, to mature and to be strong. I am being molded through my experiences. I failed a lot of times. I failed in making decisions most of the time, I can cry to the Lord but then I am thankful to God for allowing me to experience it. I never give up when I got failed, but it makes me a motivation to continue on.
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
Hi there! Failures in life are not really events making our life worse. If you failed, then at least you did something. Then you must learn from your mistakes so it won't happen again. Furthermore, perceive your failures as windows for opportunities. This is the time that you should think, decide and plan the next move. Be positive always!
@waflay (2295)
• Nairobi, Kenya
15 Sep 11
I like triple jump because it has some things I like doing when I have failed in something. First you hop, this gives you hope that you are about to do something great, to mark a milestone in your life. The second thing will be the step, giving you a good base before you make an effort to accomplish your goal. Then the last bit is to jump, knowing you have all it take to make history in what you are up to. So, failure is the base level of every success, but one must be very careful since a failure can repeat itself. But I consider a failure as a new invention, this is only that you went a wrong way to get in-targeted answer
@viney17 (688)
• Philippines
15 Sep 11
there is no such thing as failure, you just took the other way, i mean if you fail its not the end right ? you will continue to move so consider it as having a new secret road in your life. Live life to the fullest forget this 'failures' as their are on the past now, stick to the present and think of the future :D good luck
@yskaps (233)
• India
15 Sep 11
eacha nd every failures are begnning of the victory...so do anything as confidently